Embracing Winter's Energy: Astrological Insights and Seasonal Reflections


Embracing Winter's Energy: Astrological Insights and Seasonal Reflections
In this combined episode of Practically Magick, Courtney Pearl and co-host Kambria Davis delve into the significance of winter and Scorpio season. They discuss the importance of embracing the natural rhythms of the season, including rest and transformation. Kambria highlights how the astrological energies of death and rebirth are especially pertinent during this time, influencing many aspects of life, from personal growth to societal changes. The discussion emphasizes the need to resist the hustle culture, allowing for rest and reflection, and aligning with nature's cycles for better mental, emotional, and physical well-being. They also share personal anecdotes, offer practical advice, and invite listeners to embrace the upcoming winter season intentionally. The episode concludes with insights on birth chart readings and a reminder to make magic in everyday life.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:53 Election Day Energy
02:57 Scorpio Season Insights
05:31 Navigating Change and Transformation
11:03 Embracing Winter and Letting Go
16:32 The Importance of Rest and Reflection
26:09 The Importance of a 'Do Nothing' Day
26:36 Finding Space and Asking for Help
28:24 Managing Client Relationships and Personal Time
29:01 Challenging the Hustle Culture
30:11 The Benefits of Rest and Digest
31:56 Embracing Seasonal Changes
33:41 The Struggle with Doing Nothing
34:28 Astrology and Life Transitions
42:50 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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But we're going to start this episode
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I'm Courtney Pearl, by the way, in
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I'm going to pull a card.
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the season of Samhain or in Welsh it is or
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Calan Gaeff November 1st starts winter.
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The Celtic calendar didn't really
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seasons of like spring and fall
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It's pretty much snowing outside I haven't
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people walk past my window with their
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and I'm like I'll stay inside today
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Welcome winter So
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I pulled a card and actually Appropriately
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coming of
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I'll stay here inside.
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within your mirrored flesh.
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Alas, it is time to lay your quivering
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people consider Thanksgiving a holiday,
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season and it all lends
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will always be there.
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kind of anchor the season and if some
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willingness to transform because change
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election season, because when this
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know today, but we're
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like not going
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voting with fear and
contention, but rather,
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you know, not
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resisting that
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being able to trust
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do my part
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as and then just trust
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that I got to go with, you know, what
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that there's so much intensity surrounding
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transform, where we are forced to like
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have a relationship, have a new job, buy
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pair of pants that you have for two
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things that I be holding onto.
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This is going to be the time when
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Let's take a real hard look at that.
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And even I've been doing a lot more of
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And I find it so interesting how
much different themes come up.
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No matter who's doing the reading
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my client is, I see a lot more
like the top, the tower card
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is coming up a lot for people lately.
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or if you're gonna go down with the ship,
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This power is burning.
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So are you gonna hang on or are you gonna
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go find something else that works?
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And then the nine and 10 words are
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finality of saying that you're
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That's like,
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this is real hard.
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Like right now you're experiencing
all the hard about everything
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that you've done before.
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You've made certain choices and
you're on this path, but like you're
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in a moment right now where you can
either decide I am so done with this.
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I'm done with the way I do things
because it's so not working.
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And the 10 of swords would be like, I'm
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done, it's dead, I'm
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leaving behind, it's got 10
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Cool, cool.
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Yeah, I mean,
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cool.
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Yeah, I mean, that's happening currently
in Scorpio season and something too,
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like a good metaphor that I like to
think of Scorpio season is like, you
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know, we're heading into winter, right?
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We're going into winter, at least in
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And you you think about it, like if
you had to pack up and leave a place,
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right, for the term of winter, what
would you choose to take with you?
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That's the energy of Scorpio.
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Like we're heading into winter, we're
going into a season where we have
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less energy, we have less resources.
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Yeah, I was talking to my barber
dude, was like, I'm taking these
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pills, they'll shed a few pounds.
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And I was like, wrong season, man.
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going
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Ha ha.
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going into winter your body knows what
it's supposed to do your body actually
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wants is meant to gain weight and put
on some pounds to last through right
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the the dead of winter and potentially
not having enough food and warmth so
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Mm-hmm.
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It's like we have been so taught and
so conditioned to fight against the
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natural rhythms of what's happening.
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This is the season of saying,
let go of what you don't need.
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Leave behind what you cannot
carry into this winter season.
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and slow
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And that's the season to rest and
reflect and just cozy up and get and slow
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do.
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I
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down because.
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We don't have the same energy as we do.
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I like what you said.
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In Celtic, it's like the light side of
the year and the dark side of the year.
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And that just makes it really simple.
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you know, we're in a transitional
phase astrologically, but, you
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know, we're going into that.
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So what can you let go of?
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What can't you carry?
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And maybe you really want to, but you
have to start making choices, right?
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Or if I really want to take this
thing, I can't also carry this.
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And we're seeing that, right?
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We're seeing that on a global level.
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We're seeing that on a national level.
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We're seeing that on an individual level
of like, things are shifting and changing.
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And it's my hope, like, I just am like,
it'll be really interesting whenever
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this airs and once there becomes
some quote unquote result, you know,
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are people able to shift and change?
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regardless and I know astrologically
that this election is a big deal
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and I also know that other things
are happening in the cosmos for the
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next 20 years that this almost feels
like really just the beginning.
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Uh-huh,
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yeah.
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Yes.
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I hesitate
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to say how
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we've
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like corresponded this with a
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feminine awakening and I
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don't mean to bring that up as
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like because this election
has a woman running.
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But the energy I'm talking about
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more than anything is that
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a lot of people respond to
the coming into winter and the
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rest period as a feminine time.
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Not to say that that's
just like about women.
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It's about The feminine
aspect of all of us.
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Like what does it mean to embrace
the idea that, well actually, that
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actually makes a lot of sense.
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now that I think about it.
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I just pulled before our recording.
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out.
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these cards that we talk about,
these are like a certain deck that I
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have that are just words and they're
supposed to be connecting with spirit.
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And I did this little mini reading
where I just like, wonder what's
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going to come up for this episode.
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And we were kind of
joking about it because I
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said, is there anything to do with
pregnancy that you can think of?
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Like why that would be coming up?
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Cambria's like, not me.
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And I'm like, not me, but.
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I always bring up pregnancy in
certain readings or in certain healing
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sessions when it comes up for people
in the healing work of the sakra
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or the creative center of the body.
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Because to me,
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wintertime and femininity
and that feminine energy, it
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corresponds a lot with pregnancy
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because
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Thank you.
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not in a literal sense, but in more of
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like energy of not
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being physically productive
in a project or something,
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but being like letting the project just
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build itself in like, thought and mind.
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So I always
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like, I always tell
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clients who are kind of stuck in that
energy of like, I've got to do, do,
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do, do, I've got to be productive.
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I've got to be like,
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more.
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hustle culture, right?
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Like I gotta hustle.
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And I say, nobody's ever telling
a pregnant woman to hurry up.
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and make that baby, right?
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Like
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you would never like yell at a
pregnant woman for sitting on the
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couch
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and be like, you're supposed
to be making a brain
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today.
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You're supposed to be
like developing a baby.
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What are you doing sitting on the couch?
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You would never do that.
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And that is the energy of like what I
see going in the winter is like, you
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cannot hustle your way through it.
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This is a time to still yourself,
your mind and your body.
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way.
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to be able to then produce what
you're going to be producing in the
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more physically productive times.
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Am I making any sense here?
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For me, that's pregnancy energy.
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Kambria
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yeah, and it's birth.
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It's birthing, right?
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So think pregnancy can be,
really like pregnancy is very
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direct, which that could be.
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Maybe somebody listening to this,
this will resonate something for them.
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When we talked about it too, we
kind of brought it up and I was
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like, no, that's not tracking.
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But if we, if we expand that into
just birth, again, what needs to die?
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Right?
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We all only have so much energy,
so much space, so much bandwidth.
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And so, you know, the people who can be,
who can be aware of their own energetic
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field, own bandwidth, to me are the people
who, you know, are really learning how
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to set those boundaries and understanding
that the go, go, go is not how we're
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built and that there's a period of
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Mm-hmm.
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Just station.
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Yes.
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know, birthing, there's a period of
building, there's a period of creating,
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you're literally molding something,
birthing something, providing nutrients,
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just, you know, all these things that
are happening in that process, you know.
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So what, you know, that
is, that is winter.
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Yeah.
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You know, because it's not, it
doesn't mean you can't go start
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something new or whatever, but
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to this,
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It's the season, again, we look outside,
it's snowing, the leaves are down and
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things are starting to really die and
then they become very dormant for a
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period of time, which is ultimately
the season for us to do the same.
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And that's when some of the
creativity, know, there's so many
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studies about the brain and how
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know, kid children or people, adults
in general as well, have lost their
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creativity because we don't find boredom.
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not, we never have
opportunities to slow down.
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We don't just sit around.
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If we're sitting, we're reading,
watching a show on our cell phones,
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on our laptops, on the phone, you
know, it's rare that's like, I'm
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just going to sit to sit, you know?
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Yeah.
490
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my God.
491
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There are a of people, me personally,
like so many of my creative or intentional
493
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or intuitive ideas often come in the
shower or the tub or something like that.
494
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Well, what am I doing?
495
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I'm bored and I'm present.
496
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know, that is, that is winter.
497
00:19:00,831 --> 00:19:00,838
Yeah.
498
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You know, because it's not, it
doesn't mean you can't go start
499
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something new or whatever, but
500
00:19:00,963 --> 00:19:01,065
It's the season, again, we look outside,
it's snowing, the leaves are down and
501
00:19:01,065 --> 00:19:01,168
things are starting to really die and
then they become very dormant for a
502
00:19:01,168 --> 00:19:01,270
period of time, which is ultimately
the season for us to do the same.
503
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And that's when some of the
creativity, know, there's so many
504
00:19:01,351 --> 00:19:01,395
studies about the brain and how
505
00:19:01,395 --> 00:19:01,490
know, kid children or people, adults
in general as well, have lost their
506
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creativity because we don't find boredom.
507
00:19:01,534 --> 00:19:01,592
not, we never have
opportunities to slow down.
508
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We don't just sit around.
509
00:19:01,629 --> 00:19:01,717
If we're sitting, we're reading,
watching a show on our cell phones,
510
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on our laptops, on the phone, you
know, it's rare that's like, I'm
511
00:19:02,012 --> 00:19:02,035
just going to sit to sit, you know?
512
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513
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Yeah.
514
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my God.
515
00:19:03,212 --> 00:19:04,448
yeah, so that's the season.
516
00:19:04,642 --> 00:19:07,302
So yeah, I think like from a
pregnancy standpoint, great.
517
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Everybody take, you know,
five, six months to give birth.
518
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take the time to really feed and
nurture and learn about this thing that
519
00:19:16,672 --> 00:19:21,712
you're birthing and then come spring
equinox, know, boom, now you're gonna
520
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have energy, the sun's back out, now
you give it life and give it action.
521
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522
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Yes.
523
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And that's so important because we
as a society in like, like I said,
524
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hustle culture, which we are all part
of, it's so focused on if I've got 10
525
00:19:22,980 --> 00:19:23,021
minutes between, I don't know, wash
or something, I'm going to fill it
526
00:19:23,021 --> 00:19:23,062
with, you know, emailing contacts and,
you know, make a social media clip.
527
00:19:23,062 --> 00:19:23,087
I'm guilty of it probably
more than anybody.
528
00:19:23,087 --> 00:19:23,119
I'm like, what can I do
with that 10 minutes?
529
00:19:23,122 --> 00:19:23,167
But I often find myself being
jealous of my past self.
530
00:19:23,167 --> 00:19:23,187
When I was in college, I
had a job at a certain home
531
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improvement store as a cashier.
532
00:19:23,195 --> 00:19:23,211
And I was in the lumber side of the store.
533
00:19:23,211 --> 00:19:23,235
And for those of you who've ever worked or
know what store I'm talking about, nobody
534
00:19:23,235 --> 00:19:23,246
hardly ever goes to the lumber cashier.
535
00:19:23,246 --> 00:19:23,262
Lumber cashier stands there for
like hours with no customer.
536
00:19:23,262 --> 00:19:23,280
Sometimes those commercial sales people
will come through, but it's the lowest
537
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:23,302
of the low in the authority lineup of
cashiers and you start lumber cashier.
538
00:19:23,302 --> 00:19:23,316
So you're just over there
by yourself for hours.
539
00:19:23,316 --> 00:19:23,333
I remember they wouldn't even
let me have reading material or
540
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541
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Yeah.
542
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you
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Obviously you couldn't
have your phone with you.
546
00:19:23,365 --> 00:19:23,373
Those were like the rules.
547
00:19:23,373 --> 00:19:23,392
And I would have, I mean, just
literally like two, three hours
548
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sometimes that I didn't see a
soul on that part of the store.
549
00:19:23,412 --> 00:19:23,418
I would stand there.
550
00:19:23,418 --> 00:19:23,427
we weren't allowed to sit either.
551
00:19:23,427 --> 00:19:23,434
That's a whole thing.
552
00:19:23,434 --> 00:19:23,454
But I had to stand there at
the counter and I had nothing
553
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but my own minds to keep me.
554
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I came up with the most elaborate
555
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Yeah.
557
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fantastical stories to entertain
myself and I used to think it was
559
00:19:23,509 --> 00:19:23,520
so awful, like just so boring.
560
00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:23,996
But now I'm so busy as a mom, as
a business owner, as a podcast,
561
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or as a everything that I am.
562
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I'm like, when do I have time to stand
there for hours and just think thoughts?
563
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I don't even allow it for myself.
564
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565
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Yes.
566
00:19:27,622 --> 00:19:29,552
And that's so important because we
567
00:19:30,122 --> 00:19:33,472
as a society in like like I said,
hustle culture, which we are all
568
00:19:33,472 --> 00:19:36,732
part of, it's so focused on
569
00:19:38,032 --> 00:19:40,662
if I've got 10 minutes
between, I don't know,
570
00:19:41,422 --> 00:19:43,962
wash or something, I'm
going to fill it with,
571
00:19:44,662 --> 00:19:46,422
you know, emailing contacts and,
572
00:19:48,442 --> 00:19:50,292
you know, make a social media clip.
573
00:19:50,362 --> 00:19:52,042
I'm guilty of it probably
574
00:19:52,092 --> 00:19:52,842
more than anybody.
575
00:19:53,002 --> 00:19:54,809
I'm like, what can I do
with that 10 minutes?
576
00:19:56,702 --> 00:19:58,862
But I often find myself being
577
00:19:59,652 --> 00:20:02,372
jealous of my past self.
578
00:20:03,062 --> 00:20:07,722
When I was in college, I
had a job at a certain home
579
00:20:07,722 --> 00:20:10,432
improvement store as a cashier.
580
00:20:12,042 --> 00:20:15,842
And I was in the lumber side of the store.
581
00:20:16,692 --> 00:20:19,182
And for those of you who've ever worked or
582
00:20:19,252 --> 00:20:24,392
know what store I'm talking about, nobody
hardly ever goes to the lumber cashier.
583
00:20:24,532 --> 00:20:28,232
Lumber cashier stands there
for like hours with no
584
00:20:29,532 --> 00:20:29,602
customer.
585
00:20:29,632 --> 00:20:32,842
Sometimes those commercial
sales people will come through,
586
00:20:33,192 --> 00:20:34,202
but it's
587
00:20:34,382 --> 00:20:35,642
the lowest of the low in
588
00:20:35,642 --> 00:20:41,552
the authority lineup of cashiers
and you start lumber cashier.
589
00:20:41,552 --> 00:20:45,882
So you're just over there
by yourself for hours.
590
00:20:46,562 --> 00:20:48,992
I remember they wouldn't
even let me have reading
591
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material or
592
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593
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Yeah.
594
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you
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Obviously you couldn't
have your phone with you.
598
00:20:53,032 --> 00:20:54,212
Those were like the rules.
599
00:20:55,492 --> 00:20:56,022
And I
600
00:20:56,022 --> 00:20:59,852
would have, I mean, just
literally like two, three hours
601
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sometimes that I didn't see a soul
602
00:21:03,122 --> 00:21:04,202
on that part of the store.
603
00:21:04,492 --> 00:21:05,522
I would stand there.
604
00:21:05,922 --> 00:21:07,532
we weren't allowed to sit either.
605
00:21:07,602 --> 00:21:08,352
That's a whole thing.
606
00:21:08,382 --> 00:21:11,492
But I had to stand there at the counter
607
00:21:12,522 --> 00:21:16,072
and I had nothing but
my own minds to keep me.
608
00:21:17,072 --> 00:21:18,372
I came up with the most
609
00:21:18,472 --> 00:21:19,732
elaborate
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611
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Yeah.
612
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00:21:20,702 --> 00:21:24,272
fantastical stories to entertain myself
614
00:21:25,462 --> 00:21:30,292
and I used to think it was so
awful, like just so boring.
615
00:21:31,292 --> 00:21:35,000
But now I'm so busy as a mom, as
a business owner, as a podcast,
616
00:21:35,092 --> 00:21:38,222
or as a everything that I am.
617
00:21:38,252 --> 00:21:42,862
I'm like, when do I have time to
stand there for hours and just think
618
00:21:42,892 --> 00:21:43,262
thoughts?
619
00:21:43,992 --> 00:21:46,562
I don't even allow it for myself.
620
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Kambria
621
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622
00:21:47,702 --> 00:21:47,782
Yeah, totally.
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And it's so important.
625
00:21:48,992 --> 00:21:51,512
So yeah, I have been going
through a transition period just
626
00:21:51,552 --> 00:21:52,642
these last few months where I'm
627
00:21:52,642 --> 00:21:54,492
like, summer was busy.
628
00:21:55,232 --> 00:21:57,182
I definitely filled my schedule.
629
00:21:57,242 --> 00:21:58,562
I continue to do that.
630
00:21:58,572 --> 00:22:02,752
Still I go, okay, what, what
can I do with the time I have?
631
00:22:02,782 --> 00:22:03,802
I'll fill it up.
632
00:22:04,992 --> 00:22:07,982
And I had, I was in a study group.
633
00:22:08,402 --> 00:22:10,442
we read a book called the Wander Society.
634
00:22:10,482 --> 00:22:12,512
I don't know if you've ever heard of that.
635
00:22:12,682 --> 00:22:17,672
But the Wander Society is kind of an
anti-capitalist movement of people
636
00:22:17,862 --> 00:22:23,602
who basically use rest and wandering
as a form of activism against
637
00:22:24,372 --> 00:22:29,362
hustle culture kind of thing,
where instead of having a plan,
638
00:22:29,972 --> 00:22:33,912
you actually have time in your
schedule that's totally unplanned.
639
00:22:34,842 --> 00:22:36,462
And you're supposed to go wandering.
640
00:22:36,492 --> 00:22:39,632
You're supposed to go out
for walks or for whatever.
641
00:22:39,632 --> 00:22:41,482
You're supposed to wander about the city.
642
00:22:41,732 --> 00:22:41,853
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643
00:22:41,853 --> 00:22:41,854
Woo hoo.
644
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wander about the countryside,
wherever you are.
646
00:22:46,932 --> 00:22:50,602
And there's a whole book that gives you
suggestions on how to do that, how to,
647
00:22:52,442 --> 00:22:54,392
what are different ways you can wander,
648
00:22:54,412 --> 00:22:54,922
all kinds of things.
649
00:22:56,072 --> 00:22:59,512
But we decided as a book club that it's
not just about walking around, it's
650
00:22:59,542 --> 00:23:04,762
also about time spent doing nothing
else, like having no schedule, no
651
00:23:04,812 --> 00:23:05,332
plan,
652
00:23:06,432 --> 00:23:10,107
listening to your own body and saying,
what does my body wanna do right now?
653
00:23:10,362 --> 00:23:11,712
Like, what do I feel like doing?
654
00:23:11,712 --> 00:23:11,872
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655
00:23:11,872 --> 00:23:11,952
Bye!
656
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657
00:23:12,592 --> 00:23:15,192
So I'm trying to clear my schedule a
658
00:23:15,192 --> 00:23:16,832
little more for winter.
659
00:23:17,792 --> 00:23:18,162
And
660
00:23:18,162 --> 00:23:21,722
I'm trying to preserve
that sacred space in my
661
00:23:21,722 --> 00:23:22,132
life
662
00:23:22,162 --> 00:23:24,022
for wandering.
663
00:23:25,482 --> 00:23:28,122
And for me, I said, I need
to have time to read books.
664
00:23:28,812 --> 00:23:31,132
I haven't had time for
any of that all summer.
665
00:23:31,132 --> 00:23:31,244
There's
666
00:23:31,244 --> 00:23:32,312
some studying And reading I want to do.
667
00:23:37,562 --> 00:23:38,152
And I want
668
00:23:38,172 --> 00:23:39,622
time to talk to her
669
00:23:39,622 --> 00:23:39,932
about
670
00:23:39,932 --> 00:23:40,302
the house.
671
00:23:40,302 --> 00:23:40,317
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00:23:40,322 --> 00:23:40,352
What?
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00:23:41,442 --> 00:23:42,262
That's what I call it.
675
00:23:42,302 --> 00:23:43,162
That's what they call it in English.
676
00:23:43,532 --> 00:23:44,322
They say like,
677
00:23:45,942 --> 00:23:47,212
I'm just pottering at the house, you
678
00:23:47,622 --> 00:23:51,532
know, just a little this and a little
that and just walk around and, you know,
679
00:23:51,532 --> 00:23:53,272
adjust place or whatever.
680
00:23:53,982 --> 00:23:54,262
And I
681
00:23:54,262 --> 00:23:57,432
realized if I have time to do that, then
682
00:23:57,432 --> 00:23:58,052
I know,
683
00:23:58,052 --> 00:23:59,742
that I'm kind of
684
00:23:59,742 --> 00:24:00,852
making space for myself.
685
00:24:01,142 --> 00:24:02,772
Like there's time to think thoughts
686
00:24:02,972 --> 00:24:03,312
And
687
00:24:05,442 --> 00:24:07,582
just pay attention to my space, my
688
00:24:07,592 --> 00:24:08,172
home.
689
00:24:09,262 --> 00:24:10,942
Like the TV is off.
690
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Kambria
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692
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Sure.
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no phone in my hand.
695
00:24:13,762 --> 00:24:14,972
I'm just going about my
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[
house and paying attention to
whatever happens to be around.
697
00:24:20,191 --> 00:24:23,066
my house and paying attention to
whatever happens to be around.
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00:24:23,066 --> 00:24:23,589
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699
00:24:23,589 --> 00:24:25,592
Yeah, no, that's so...
700
00:24:25,902 --> 00:24:30,502
A few years ago, I would say probably,
I don't know, probably four-ish years,
701
00:24:30,502 --> 00:24:36,292
maybe five, I started being really
intentional about a do-nothing day.
702
00:24:38,122 --> 00:24:44,952
And I, for a couple years, I would say
I was really intentional once a week.
703
00:24:45,372 --> 00:24:46,772
But I would schedule it, right?
704
00:24:46,772 --> 00:24:50,332
And like with a partner at the time, like
we would put in our calendar, we would
705
00:24:50,332 --> 00:24:54,222
do it together, we had the opportunity
and the privilege to be able to do so.
706
00:24:54,552 --> 00:24:56,742
Not everybody has that available
to them, I understand that.
707
00:24:56,772 --> 00:24:59,062
And maybe not everybody
has a do nothing day.
708
00:24:59,382 --> 00:25:04,332
And then I would say maybe a couple
years ago, I was really committed to this
709
00:25:04,332 --> 00:25:06,912
like 10 minutes a day of doing nothing.
710
00:25:07,292 --> 00:25:10,562
I'd set it along, I'd schedule
it, and it was just no phone,
711
00:25:10,672 --> 00:25:13,802
no talking to, just 10 minutes.
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Yeah.
714
00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:14,484
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715
00:25:14,552 --> 00:25:16,782
And because I know it
feels overwhelming, right?
716
00:25:16,782 --> 00:25:18,997
Like I know there's so much.
717
00:25:19,232 --> 00:25:19,252
So
718
00:25:19,297 --> 00:25:20,185
all these things and just really it's been
719
00:25:20,272 --> 00:25:23,502
I had a do nothing day on Sunday,
my partner and I had that.
720
00:25:23,812 --> 00:25:27,932
And it's so interesting because I've
been doing this like whole overhaul
721
00:25:27,932 --> 00:25:33,232
of slowing down, this whole overhaul
of like the amount that I produce is
722
00:25:33,232 --> 00:25:39,357
not my personal value and like having
to learn, having to work through
723
00:25:39,442 --> 00:25:41,242
like the guilt and the shame and
724
00:25:41,622 --> 00:25:41,942
the...
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Mm-hmm.
727
00:25:42,434 --> 00:25:42,557
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728
00:25:42,557 --> 00:25:45,752
back to people and if I don't text people
back then they're going to think that I
729
00:25:45,752 --> 00:25:48,472
hate them but I don't really hate them
and people who are like well how can you
730
00:25:48,472 --> 00:25:53,232
post on social but not text you know like
all these things and just really it's
731
00:25:53,232 --> 00:25:59,412
been a long journey of just being like my
time is my own and you know if I post or
732
00:25:59,412 --> 00:26:04,062
if I take my kids on a walk or whatever
and I can't get back to people I mean I
733
00:26:04,132 --> 00:26:07,292
think currently I have like 30 something
messages in my phone and it's not that
734
00:26:08,142 --> 00:26:08,922
that's not important to me it's that
735
00:26:08,922 --> 00:26:09,195
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736
00:26:09,195 --> 00:26:09,234
Yeah.
737
00:26:09,234 --> 00:26:09,313
Kambria [25:46.062]
738
00:26:09,352 --> 00:26:15,942
I don't have the literally energetic
capacity anymore to manage it all.
739
00:26:17,762 --> 00:26:22,852
And so the do nothing day, so on
Sunday, right, I was like, I told my
740
00:26:22,852 --> 00:26:26,852
girlfriend, I was like, I need to do
nothing day, we would have been nonstop.
741
00:26:27,502 --> 00:26:28,812
It was a non kid weekend.
742
00:26:28,812 --> 00:26:29,862
So it's always easier.
743
00:26:29,862 --> 00:26:33,262
Again, we're very privileged to
like be able to figure that in but
744
00:26:33,262 --> 00:26:33,656
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745
00:26:33,656 --> 00:26:33,713
Yeah.
746
00:26:33,713 --> 00:26:33,825
Kambria [26:10.698]
747
00:26:33,882 --> 00:26:36,112
Just that reset, you know?
748
00:26:36,182 --> 00:26:43,562
So I totally invite people over
the next between now and March.
749
00:26:44,242 --> 00:26:44,332
Right?
750
00:26:45,202 --> 00:26:48,132
So let's see, November,
December, January, February.
751
00:26:48,532 --> 00:26:55,232
So basically four-ish, five-ish months
to find that space, you know, to ask
752
00:26:55,232 --> 00:26:56,932
for help with a partner or a friend.
753
00:26:57,202 --> 00:26:58,332
Swap it out, right?
754
00:26:58,342 --> 00:27:01,602
Hey, if you take my kids for two
hours on this Sunday, I'll do
755
00:27:01,602 --> 00:27:02,692
the next Sunday for two hours.
756
00:27:02,692 --> 00:27:05,552
So you can just do nothing
and I can do nothing.
757
00:27:05,572 --> 00:27:08,482
And we were able to do like a whole day.
758
00:27:08,632 --> 00:27:09,922
So there's no...
759
00:27:09,922 --> 00:27:10,897
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760
00:27:10,897 --> 00:27:10,985
Yeah.
761
00:27:10,985 --> 00:27:11,161
Kambria [26:47.29]
762
00:27:11,161 --> 00:27:12,432
It doesn't mean you do nothing.
763
00:27:12,842 --> 00:27:16,982
It just means that there's, you know,
the phones are away for the most part.
764
00:27:17,652 --> 00:27:21,632
And so being able to find that time,
even if it's just 10 minutes a day,
765
00:27:23,432 --> 00:27:27,162
you know, or social media, but like,
whatever feels right to people, people
766
00:27:27,162 --> 00:27:29,132
can figure that out for themselves.
767
00:27:29,162 --> 00:27:35,802
But having space, intentional
space, and now I have to like
768
00:27:35,802 --> 00:27:37,682
schedule it, which is also okay.
769
00:27:37,682 --> 00:27:38,892
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Yep, you got to.
771
00:27:40,438 --> 00:27:40,467
Yeah.
772
00:27:40,467 --> 00:27:40,523
Kambria [27:17.368]
773
00:27:40,552 --> 00:27:40,792
But
774
00:27:41,002 --> 00:27:44,552
it's like, woo, know, able to do it.
775
00:27:44,552 --> 00:27:49,122
And I'm kind of like you, where I
was like initially today, I had a
776
00:27:49,122 --> 00:27:52,525
pretty free day, and then, you know,
life happens and you're like, I've
777
00:27:52,525 --> 00:27:55,042
got time here and I can do this
and I can meet up with this person.
778
00:27:55,052 --> 00:27:57,726
And I'm like, wrong, camera, slow.
779
00:27:57,726 --> 00:27:59,646
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780
00:27:59,946 --> 00:28:00,342
Yes.
781
00:28:00,822 --> 00:28:01,192
Yeah.
782
00:28:01,192 --> 00:28:01,382
And
783
00:28:01,382 --> 00:28:02,352
I mean, even
784
00:28:02,712 --> 00:28:07,322
as I've been clearing my
schedule, certain projects, aka
785
00:28:07,932 --> 00:28:12,352
the witch movie project, were
getting finished up, right?
786
00:28:12,382 --> 00:28:13,602
And I was like, that took
787
00:28:13,602 --> 00:28:15,912
a lot of my time I was very busy with
788
00:28:16,082 --> 00:28:16,602
all that.
789
00:28:16,642 --> 00:28:16,942
And I
790
00:28:16,942 --> 00:28:19,252
didn't have time to really text clients
791
00:28:19,432 --> 00:28:19,822
back
792
00:28:20,622 --> 00:28:21,812
for prism healing.
793
00:28:21,872 --> 00:28:24,382
And that's hard for me because
794
00:28:24,982 --> 00:28:27,742
And I know you know this, like when
you're trying to build something new,
795
00:28:27,922 --> 00:28:28,362
I want to
796
00:28:28,652 --> 00:28:30,112
build clients for Prism Healing.
797
00:28:30,112 --> 00:28:31,992
I want to check in with my clients.
798
00:28:32,132 --> 00:28:32,522
I want to
799
00:28:32,532 --> 00:28:34,632
have a personal relationship
with my clients.
800
00:28:35,302 --> 00:28:37,942
I want people to, know I'm there for them.
801
00:28:37,942 --> 00:28:40,162
And so you think, well, at least I do.
802
00:28:40,252 --> 00:28:43,422
I think in my mind, like, okay, I
have to be available all the time.
803
00:28:43,422 --> 00:28:44,662
I have to,
804
00:28:45,552 --> 00:28:45,692
you.
805
00:28:45,692 --> 00:28:50,102
know, have this to-do list that I do
every week and I have to get it done.
806
00:28:50,942 --> 00:28:53,792
And yeah, being able to like kind
807
00:28:53,792 --> 00:28:55,523
of Kambria [28:02.414]
808
00:28:55,523 --> 00:28:55,524
you.
809
00:28:55,524 --> 00:28:55,537
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810
00:28:55,537 --> 00:28:56,472
move from
811
00:28:56,482 --> 00:28:56,882
that
812
00:28:56,892 --> 00:28:59,192
space into the season we're
813
00:28:59,192 --> 00:29:00,442
coming into right now.
814
00:29:01,282 --> 00:29:01,392
I
815
00:29:01,392 --> 00:29:05,412
had to be Like I have to fight my
816
00:29:05,462 --> 00:29:06,752
own belief systems about
817
00:29:06,762 --> 00:29:08,152
hustle and about
818
00:29:09,062 --> 00:29:11,212
what, you know, building something or
819
00:29:11,212 --> 00:29:13,542
like, this is what I want to achieve.
820
00:29:13,572 --> 00:29:13,792
These are
821
00:29:13,792 --> 00:29:14,392
my goals.
822
00:29:14,522 --> 00:29:14,892
That means
823
00:29:14,892 --> 00:29:15,022
I
824
00:29:15,032 --> 00:29:18,612
have to not stop until
I achieve those goals.
825
00:29:18,662 --> 00:29:21,352
It's about, you know,
go, go, go, work hard.
826
00:29:22,162 --> 00:29:22,492
And then I
827
00:29:22,522 --> 00:29:23,362
remembered
828
00:29:23,712 --> 00:29:24,832
that's a lie.
829
00:29:25,362 --> 00:29:26,432
that we've all been taught.
830
00:29:26,602 --> 00:29:27,732
We've all been taught
831
00:29:27,732 --> 00:29:28,012
that.
832
00:29:28,062 --> 00:29:30,162
Like you don't give up, you
833
00:29:30,162 --> 00:29:30,502
don't
834
00:29:30,502 --> 00:29:31,122
rest,
835
00:29:32,382 --> 00:29:33,872
you know, hit it hard.
836
00:29:34,162 --> 00:29:36,032
This is what success looks like.
837
00:29:36,062 --> 00:29:37,912
This is the recipe for success.
838
00:29:37,932 --> 00:29:38,572
You've got to
839
00:29:38,672 --> 00:29:42,772
go, And I'm like, who says, right?
840
00:29:42,812 --> 00:29:44,992
Like I had to stop and be like,
841
00:29:45,742 --> 00:29:53,747
what if I become just as successful or
more so because I have Kambria [29:05.474]
842
00:29:53,862 --> 00:29:53,892
Yes.
843
00:29:53,892 --> 00:29:53,942
Ride The
844
00:29:53,942 --> 00:29:54,476
Wave Media Podcast Network
845
00:29:54,476 --> 00:29:55,842
[29:31.528] remains in a
846
00:29:56,072 --> 00:29:58,322
less stressed state of mind
847
00:29:59,152 --> 00:30:01,802
and a less stressed body And less
848
00:30:04,052 --> 00:30:07,742
you know, I'm trying to
think of the word for it.
849
00:30:07,762 --> 00:30:10,082
It's like a fight, flight, fighter flight,
850
00:30:11,022 --> 00:30:11,442
right?
851
00:30:11,442 --> 00:30:15,892
Because your body and mind cannot
operate at that level for very long.
852
00:30:16,552 --> 00:30:22,832
And it actually doesn't condone
to creative solutions and creative
853
00:30:22,972 --> 00:30:24,832
pathways to get your goal met.
854
00:30:25,292 --> 00:30:29,682
But when staying in the rest and
digest state, you can you can be
855
00:30:29,682 --> 00:30:32,272
creative, you can be like, I have
856
00:30:32,272 --> 00:30:32,375
Kambria [29:49.006]
857
00:30:32,375 --> 00:30:32,478
Good, Ernie.
858
00:30:32,478 --> 00:30:32,839
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859
00:30:32,839 --> 00:30:34,802
idea I'm gonna try or
I'm gonna do you know
860
00:30:36,242 --> 00:30:37,862
so I had to be like wait
861
00:30:39,252 --> 00:30:42,372
that's not actually how
success is created I just
862
00:30:43,812 --> 00:30:48,022
I just bought into that at some
point and you know in life I
863
00:30:48,022 --> 00:30:50,122
bought into it I believe
that's what I needed to do
864
00:30:50,842 --> 00:30:55,302
when actually working two
hours a day maybe on this stuff
865
00:30:55,902 --> 00:30:58,672
could get me the same
results it's possible why
866
00:30:58,672 --> 00:30:59,052
not
867
00:30:59,052 --> 00:31:00,125
Kambria [30:36.622]
868
00:31:00,662 --> 00:31:00,712
All right.
869
00:31:00,712 --> 00:31:00,885
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870
00:31:00,885 --> 00:31:04,962
you know, checking in with my clients
and just being like, Hey, how you doing?
871
00:31:05,612 --> 00:31:08,972
And maybe doing that once in a
while And just making sure that I'm
872
00:31:08,972 --> 00:31:12,572
doing it at my leisure
or at a good time for me.
873
00:31:13,042 --> 00:31:15,592
That's just as good as like,
I've got to make sure I
874
00:31:15,592 --> 00:31:16,122
hit this month.
875
00:31:16,312 --> 00:31:17,382
I have to hit this at this
876
00:31:17,382 --> 00:31:17,752
time.
877
00:31:20,142 --> 00:31:21,422
And I'm stressing about it.
878
00:31:22,602 --> 00:31:24,302
Doesn't, doesn't work.
879
00:31:24,312 --> 00:31:24,620
Kambria [31:02.766]
880
00:31:24,620 --> 00:31:25,797
I mean, when people
881
00:31:26,097 --> 00:31:33,992
mean, when people study about the actual
brain and how much energy our brain takes,
882
00:31:34,612 --> 00:31:38,962
right, it requires, yeah, when
we build, mean, again, nobody
883
00:31:38,962 --> 00:31:41,212
understands the hustle and bustle.
884
00:31:41,812 --> 00:31:43,332
You know, I get it, right?
885
00:31:43,532 --> 00:31:47,312
80 plus hours a week for
the better part of 10 years.
886
00:31:47,322 --> 00:31:47,692
So
887
00:31:47,992 --> 00:31:48,972
later after trying to
888
00:31:49,272 --> 00:31:54,952
undoing those narrow pathways
has taken a long time.
889
00:31:54,952 --> 00:31:55,194
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890
00:31:55,194 --> 00:31:55,228
Yeah.
891
00:31:55,228 --> 00:31:55,297
Kambria [31:32.118]
892
00:31:55,332 --> 00:31:56,802
And it's still, right?
893
00:31:56,842 --> 00:32:00,892
I would say eight years later
after trying to retrain myself and
894
00:32:01,552 --> 00:32:04,872
decondition myself from that mindset.
895
00:32:05,532 --> 00:32:09,792
And that is a big part, you know, that's
a big part of when I'm going to these
896
00:32:09,859 --> 00:32:13,642
business owners or these networking groups
or talking to people about astrology.
897
00:32:13,652 --> 00:32:18,712
It's not like, guys, come believe
in the stars because it's cool.
898
00:32:18,712 --> 00:32:20,542
You know, like that's great.
899
00:32:20,542 --> 00:32:20,962
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900
00:32:20,962 --> 00:32:21,082
Another way.
901
00:32:21,082 --> 00:32:21,202
Kambria [31:58.04]
902
00:32:21,262 --> 00:32:27,592
But I'm like, y'all, there is something
else here and I'm here to tell you,
903
00:32:28,472 --> 00:32:33,308
somebody who's lived on both sides,
it doesn't have to be that way.
904
00:32:33,608 --> 00:32:33,907
fail.
905
00:32:33,907 --> 00:32:34,504
I'm gonna,
906
00:32:34,612 --> 00:32:35,172
But it does.
907
00:32:35,502 --> 00:32:37,872
And anybody who's out there like, my gosh,
908
00:32:38,402 --> 00:32:41,352
I hustle and bustle, I feel
every minute of my schedule.
909
00:32:41,622 --> 00:32:44,312
Yeah, I love what I do, but
I'm feeling exhausted, right?
910
00:32:44,312 --> 00:32:48,102
And they're like, wait, I can't
take, I can't slow down performance.
911
00:32:48,122 --> 00:32:50,572
If I slow down, I'm gonna,
my business is gonna fail.
912
00:32:50,852 --> 00:32:52,682
I'm gonna, you know, like that.
913
00:32:52,722 --> 00:32:55,743
yes, when you
914
00:32:55,832 --> 00:32:58,592
your brain literally saying, right?
915
00:32:58,592 --> 00:33:02,602
Because we've all wired our brains,
not all of us, but you know, our
916
00:33:02,602 --> 00:33:06,792
brains are wired, a lot of us,
believe that if that happens,
917
00:33:06,792 --> 00:33:07,154
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918
00:33:07,154 --> 00:33:07,206
Yeah!
919
00:33:07,206 --> 00:33:07,310
Kambria [32:44.13]
920
00:33:07,362 --> 00:33:07,942
We will die.
921
00:33:08,142 --> 00:33:09,832
So it is work.
922
00:33:10,302 --> 00:33:14,342
But yes, when you free that up, when
you build new narrow pathways, right?
923
00:33:14,612 --> 00:33:19,912
And you work with clients who align
and you work in the seasons and
924
00:33:20,342 --> 00:33:22,762
you work with the energetic energy.
925
00:33:23,642 --> 00:33:30,252
If you have extra help,
you're not out there depleting
926
00:33:30,252 --> 00:33:31,712
yourself nearly as quickly.
927
00:33:31,712 --> 00:33:35,242
And that's a big part of, you know,
928
00:33:35,242 --> 00:33:35,464
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929
00:33:35,464 --> 00:33:35,496
Yeah.
930
00:33:35,496 --> 00:33:35,560
Kambria [33:12.384]
931
00:33:35,592 --> 00:33:39,652
what I do and how I move through
the world energetically is like okay
932
00:33:39,952 --> 00:33:41,142
have
933
00:33:41,442 --> 00:33:46,812
you know even it's funny like even my
partner like do nothing days are kind of
934
00:33:46,952 --> 00:33:50,452
a struggle for her not that she doesn't
love them appreciate them but there's
935
00:33:50,452 --> 00:33:54,612
like this level of you know she's like
I gotta I'm gonna go for a speed like
936
00:33:54,612 --> 00:33:59,182
there's still a part that's like I
can't lean into this all the way right
937
00:34:00,406 --> 00:34:01,782
big
938
00:34:01,792 --> 00:34:05,852
sometimes for me, I'm like, okay, cool,
then again, well, I should change.
939
00:34:05,962 --> 00:34:08,592
maybe, know, no, it's just like, there's
940
00:34:08,892 --> 00:34:09,802
The
941
00:34:10,102 --> 00:34:10,982
conditioning there.
942
00:34:11,022 --> 00:34:15,472
We already, we could do a whole
episode about capitalism and different
943
00:34:15,502 --> 00:34:19,532
things and how the systems are
in place to keep us safe, right?
944
00:34:19,552 --> 00:34:19,792
Yeah.
945
00:34:19,792 --> 00:34:20,559
Kambria [33:37.486] And it
946
00:34:20,602 --> 00:34:25,972
that's across the board, but also from
an astrology standpoint, come November
947
00:34:25,982 --> 00:34:28,092
19th, the next 20 years beyond that,
948
00:34:28,092 --> 00:34:28,337
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949
00:34:28,337 --> 00:34:28,372
Yeah.
950
00:34:28,372 --> 00:34:28,407
Yeah.
951
00:34:28,407 --> 00:34:28,477
Kambria [34:05.23]
952
00:34:28,512 --> 00:34:33,312
So much of that's coming crashing to
the ground and going to burn from an
953
00:34:33,312 --> 00:34:37,642
astrology standpoint and I will stand
by that and people can get rid of it
954
00:34:38,092 --> 00:34:43,792
and people can be willing to be okay
with things crumbling that are not
955
00:34:43,792 --> 00:34:46,652
working or they can just hold on,
956
00:34:46,673 --> 00:34:46,813
Okay.
957
00:34:46,813 --> 00:34:47,792
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958
00:34:47,932 --> 00:34:48,482
I have.
959
00:34:48,782 --> 00:34:49,822
you know?
960
00:34:49,822 --> 00:34:55,510
I
961
00:34:55,582 --> 00:34:56,192
I don't know?
962
00:34:56,192 --> 00:34:57,092
another way.
963
00:34:57,292 --> 00:34:58,142
This is all I know.
964
00:34:59,132 --> 00:35:01,315
And we all know what that feels like.
965
00:35:01,322 --> 00:35:04,892
That's the healing work that I do
in a nutshell, is all of the people
966
00:35:04,892 --> 00:35:08,052
coming to me going, this isn't working.
967
00:35:08,082 --> 00:35:12,892
I'm so stressed out or I'm so
traumatized or I'm so stuck.
968
00:35:14,052 --> 00:35:17,582
And they don't know what
they need to let go of.
969
00:35:17,682 --> 00:35:18,732
They don't see it.
970
00:35:18,932 --> 00:35:19,862
They only know
971
00:35:19,862 --> 00:35:19,960
Kambria [34:33.678]
972
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:20,009
Uh-huh.
973
00:35:20,009 --> 00:35:20,353
Ride The Wave Media
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974
00:35:20,402 --> 00:35:25,282
one way because that is their
brain telling them this is how I
975
00:35:25,852 --> 00:35:26,092
met.
976
00:35:27,472 --> 00:35:29,552
So you want to know more about that.
977
00:35:29,592 --> 00:35:29,712
go,
978
00:35:29,712 --> 00:35:32,952
back to my episode about the
brain, the amazing brain.
979
00:35:32,982 --> 00:35:35,912
And we talk about neuro-pathology,
how to reprogram your brain.
980
00:35:37,922 --> 00:35:40,112
So I will post a link to that in my
981
00:35:40,112 --> 00:35:44,402
blog of that episode if you want to
like dive into more of that, because
982
00:35:44,542 --> 00:35:47,002
that is a huge, huge part of it.
983
00:35:47,382 --> 00:35:48,882
And it coincides really well
984
00:35:48,892 --> 00:35:52,442
with The changes and you
know what the astrology
985
00:35:52,442 --> 00:35:52,832
is telling
986
00:35:52,832 --> 00:35:53,912
us is going to happen.
987
00:35:53,962 --> 00:35:55,462
It's like yeah November
988
00:35:55,462 --> 00:35:55,962
19th
989
00:35:56,762 --> 00:35:57,992
everybody's gonna face
990
00:35:59,022 --> 00:36:05,452
their one way of doing things and have
to ask themselves does that really work?
991
00:36:05,712 --> 00:36:08,922
That really going to get me
what I want and need and that's
992
00:36:08,922 --> 00:36:09,192
what
993
00:36:09,242 --> 00:36:10,532
you know we joke
994
00:36:10,542 --> 00:36:10,982
about
995
00:36:11,682 --> 00:36:15,354
family vacations because in our
family again this is going back
996
00:36:15,354 --> 00:36:16,522
to like generational trauma
997
00:36:17,342 --> 00:36:19,512
but We talk about
998
00:36:19,512 --> 00:36:20,982
like how much my mom always
999
00:36:21,242 --> 00:36:23,642
talks about going to
Hawaii and she's like,
1000
00:36:24,452 --> 00:36:25,592
I'm not going to plan
1001
00:36:25,772 --> 00:36:26,612
anything.
1002
00:36:26,642 --> 00:36:27,572
I just want to go to
1003
00:36:28,482 --> 00:36:29,172
Hawaii and sit on the beach
1004
00:36:29,592 --> 00:36:30,202
the whole
1005
00:36:30,202 --> 00:36:30,682
time.
1006
00:36:31,432 --> 00:36:32,052
And my dad's
1007
00:36:32,052 --> 00:36:36,512
like, you say that, but that's not
1008
00:36:36,512 --> 00:36:37,102
what we're going to
1009
00:36:37,102 --> 00:36:37,647
do.
1010
00:36:38,192 --> 00:36:38,392
like,
1011
00:36:38,392 --> 00:36:39,712
by the time we get there, you're going
1012
00:36:39,712 --> 00:36:43,602
to be like, but I also want to do this
one excursion And we can't miss this, this
1013
00:36:43,602 --> 00:36:44,552
is going on.
1014
00:36:44,802 --> 00:36:45,142
And
1015
00:36:45,272 --> 00:36:45,742
you know,
1016
00:36:45,742 --> 00:36:45,780
Kambria 36:13.227]
1017
00:36:45,780 --> 00:36:45,799
Thank
1018
00:36:45,799 --> 00:36:45,818
Ride
1019
00:36:45,818 --> 00:36:45,933
The Wave Media Podcast Network [36:22.687]
1020
00:36:45,952 --> 00:36:46,692
but It's in our nature.
1021
00:36:47,152 --> 00:36:47,962
We're like, we don't want to
1022
00:36:47,972 --> 00:36:49,192
miss these opportunities.
1023
00:36:49,192 --> 00:36:49,722
There's all these
1024
00:36:49,732 --> 00:36:51,762
things to do or whatever.
1025
00:36:51,812 --> 00:36:54,222
And we're all like that in some capacity.
1026
00:36:54,442 --> 00:36:58,797
It's hard for us to be like,
what if we went to Hawaii just to
1027
00:36:58,982 --> 00:37:00,532
sit on the beach for the entire
1028
00:37:00,532 --> 00:37:01,402
week and get
1029
00:37:01,522 --> 00:37:03,702
nothing out, play the
1030
00:37:04,592 --> 00:37:05,022
waves, enjoy the
1031
00:37:05,082 --> 00:37:05,622
sand.
1032
00:37:05,622 --> 00:37:06,902
But you get there and you're
1033
00:37:06,902 --> 00:37:09,402
like, but there's this little
town I want to go see and there's
1034
00:37:09,402 --> 00:37:11,232
this excursion I want to
1035
00:37:11,232 --> 00:37:11,352
go
1036
00:37:11,352 --> 00:37:11,742
do.
1037
00:37:11,742 --> 00:37:11,846
Kambria
1038
00:37:11,846 --> 00:37:11,951
[
36:22.99]
1039
00:37:11,951 --> 00:37:12,055
Yeah.
1040
00:37:12,055 --> 00:37:12,369
Ride The Wave
1041
00:37:12,369 --> 00:37:13,292
Media Podcast Network
[36:49.567] Whatever.
1042
00:37:13,292 --> 00:37:14,062
So you end up
1043
00:37:14,062 --> 00:37:14,542
planning a
1044
00:37:14,542 --> 00:37:14,717
bunch
1045
00:37:14,717 --> 00:37:17,462
of stuff and then you're like, do
1046
00:37:17,462 --> 00:37:19,782
we really do nothing and enjoy the waves?
1047
00:37:20,622 --> 00:37:21,232
I don't know.
1048
00:37:21,232 --> 00:37:21,418
Kambria [36:59.64]
1049
00:37:21,512 --> 00:37:21,572
Totally.
1050
00:37:21,572 --> 00:37:24,482
Ride The Wave Media Podcast
Network [37:00.661] Fight it.
1051
00:37:24,482 --> 00:37:25,612
Yeah, we fight that.
1052
00:37:25,962 --> 00:37:26,722
Do nothing.
1053
00:37:26,722 --> 00:37:27,732
It's hard.
1054
00:37:28,902 --> 00:37:33,922
I mean, I think just about anybody,
especially if you're taking phones
1055
00:37:34,352 --> 00:37:35,342
and setting phones with that.
1056
00:37:36,742 --> 00:37:38,002
I'm like, who can do that?
1057
00:37:38,572 --> 00:37:39,532
I struggle with that.
1058
00:37:39,562 --> 00:37:46,472
I have to put my phone like in another
room when it's a certain time of night.
1059
00:37:46,872 --> 00:37:50,052
And then I go get the next
morning and I've got messages.
1060
00:37:51,182 --> 00:37:53,252
And I just let people
know, I'm sorry, I don't
1061
00:37:53,252 --> 00:37:53,295
Kambria [37:05.026]
1062
00:37:53,295 --> 00:37:53,316
Mm-hmm.
1063
00:37:53,316 --> 00:37:53,359
Kambria [37:11.53]
1064
00:37:53,359 --> 00:37:53,380
Yeah!
1065
00:37:53,402 --> 00:37:53,422
Yeah!
1066
00:37:53,422 --> 00:37:55,042
Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network
[37:30.86] have my phone with me
1067
00:37:55,042 --> 00:37:56,432
after a certain time of night.
1068
00:37:56,492 --> 00:37:59,282
So if it was an emergency or
something like that, you probably
1069
00:37:59,282 --> 00:38:00,422
should have contacted somebody else.
1070
00:38:00,422 --> 00:38:00,861
Kambria [37:39.65]
1071
00:38:00,861 --> 00:38:01,519
I love that.
1072
00:38:01,519 --> 00:38:01,957
That's great.
1073
00:38:01,957 --> 00:38:02,177
Yeah.
1074
00:38:02,177 --> 00:38:02,835
Ride The Wave
1075
00:38:02,835 --> 00:38:03,712
Media Podcast Network [37:40.632]
1076
00:38:03,932 --> 00:38:05,242
Like I'm not available.
1077
00:38:06,042 --> 00:38:06,532
Yeah.
1078
00:38:08,072 --> 00:38:12,702
Cause if my phone is around
within arms reach, I'm on Facebook
1079
00:38:12,702 --> 00:38:16,702
scrolling, I'm on Instagram and
I'm like, how did I get here?
1080
00:38:17,732 --> 00:38:19,184
How did I do this?
1081
00:38:19,502 --> 00:38:20,442
I have those, those,
1082
00:38:20,742 --> 00:38:22,052
those reels that you see that they're
1083
00:38:22,052 --> 00:38:25,742
making fun of when they're like
laughing and they're going to show
1084
00:38:25,742 --> 00:38:27,672
their spouse or partner something
1085
00:38:27,962 --> 00:38:31,792
and, they're like falling
down stairs and they're like,
1086
00:38:31,792 --> 00:38:32,563
Kambria [37:54.734]
1087
00:38:32,563 --> 00:38:32,566
Cool anyway.
1088
00:38:32,566 --> 00:38:32,569
I know.
1089
00:38:32,569 --> 00:38:32,581
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [38:08.903]
1090
00:38:32,581 --> 00:38:33,072
shoot, that's right.
1091
00:38:33,222 --> 00:38:34,925
was calling 911.
1092
00:38:34,925 --> 00:38:38,512
I'm like, that would
1093
00:38:38,529 --> 00:38:38,791
I'd be
1094
00:38:38,791 --> 00:38:38,921
like,
1095
00:38:38,921 --> 00:38:39,052
this
1096
00:38:39,142 --> 00:38:39,532
I pick up
1097
00:38:39,532 --> 00:38:39,672
my
1098
00:38:39,705 --> 00:38:40,097
I'm the worst.
1099
00:38:40,097 --> 00:38:40,228
Yeah.
1100
00:38:40,228 --> 00:38:41,926
I, I need to take my own
advice when it comes to that.
1101
00:38:41,926 --> 00:38:42,187
So yeah.
1102
00:38:42,187 --> 00:38:43,885
Well, I will say that over the
last couple of years, when I
1103
00:38:43,885 --> 00:38:44,539
have embraced the winter energy,
1104
00:38:44,539 --> 00:38:44,800
Kambria [38:12.046]
1105
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:45,061
Kambria [38:20.45]
1106
00:38:45,192 --> 00:38:45,832
It's hilarious.
1107
00:38:45,832 --> 00:38:48,102
Kambria [38:28.878]
1108
00:38:48,402 --> 00:38:50,672
I need to take my own advice
when it comes to that.
1109
00:38:51,172 --> 00:38:51,562
So
1110
00:38:52,242 --> 00:38:54,492
the much easier to give it
than take it though, right?
1111
00:38:54,972 --> 00:38:55,352
yeah.
1112
00:38:55,952 --> 00:38:56,282
Yeah.
1113
00:38:56,532 --> 00:38:59,032
I will say that over the last
couple of years, when I have
1114
00:38:59,032 --> 00:39:00,692
embraced the winter energy,
1115
00:39:00,692 --> 00:39:00,988
Kambria [38:12.046]
1116
00:39:00,988 --> 00:39:01,000
Kambria [38:20.45]
1117
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:01,012
It's hilarious.
1118
00:39:01,012 --> 00:39:01,024
Kambria [38:28.878]
1119
00:39:01,024 --> 00:39:01,097
And the much easier to give
it than take it though, right?
1120
00:39:01,097 --> 00:39:01,103
Yeah.
1121
00:39:01,103 --> 00:39:01,146
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [38:37.92]
1122
00:39:01,152 --> 00:39:10,212
and embraced what that sort of fuga,
cozy contentment, clear your schedule,
1123
00:39:10,242 --> 00:39:15,712
give yourself time to rest and read
books and do more indoor things.
1124
00:39:16,342 --> 00:39:18,912
When I embraced that energy instead of
1125
00:39:21,022 --> 00:39:26,442
fighting it, it kind of cured my
seasonal depression because...
1126
00:39:26,502 --> 00:39:26,517
Kambria [38:40.494]
1127
00:39:26,522 --> 00:39:26,542
Yeah.
1128
00:39:26,542 --> 00:39:27,430
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [39:04.361]
1129
00:39:27,632 --> 00:39:31,182
Last year, I remember it coming
into springtime and I was getting
1130
00:39:31,182 --> 00:39:36,482
depressed thinking about summer coming
up, which I've never felt before.
1131
00:39:37,032 --> 00:39:40,002
I always felt depressed
going into winter, but this
1132
00:39:40,002 --> 00:39:40,312
time I
1133
00:39:40,312 --> 00:39:43,542
was like, no, I'm not really
ready to be that busy.
1134
00:39:44,842 --> 00:39:48,692
I kind of like, I kind of like
this winter feeling, you know, and
1135
00:39:48,882 --> 00:39:50,692
this rest and this time for myself.
1136
00:39:50,922 --> 00:39:51,412
So
1137
00:39:52,372 --> 00:39:53,272
it's hard to go back.
1138
00:39:53,312 --> 00:39:56,909
It's hard to go from one to
the other and be like, need
1139
00:39:56,909 --> 00:39:57,444
Kambria [39:11.627]
1140
00:39:57,712 --> 00:39:58,112
yeah.
1141
00:39:58,212 --> 00:39:58,388
Yeah.
1142
00:39:58,512 --> 00:40:01,182
change is hard, man, change is hard.
1143
00:40:01,482 --> 00:40:01,981
is hard.
1144
00:40:01,981 --> 00:40:02,422
Regardless of
1145
00:40:02,722 --> 00:40:04,872
Regardless of what form it's in, you know?
1146
00:40:04,892 --> 00:40:06,692
So yeah, I definitely see that.
1147
00:40:06,942 --> 00:40:12,362
I think the more present we are in
the spaces that we're in, easier
1148
00:40:12,362 --> 00:40:14,982
the transitions and change can be.
1149
00:40:15,282 --> 00:40:16,630
present you are with your
1150
00:40:16,652 --> 00:40:20,372
And that's also, that takes
a lot of practice too, right?
1151
00:40:20,882 --> 00:40:23,470
It's the more present you are with
your kids when you're with them.
1152
00:40:23,470 --> 00:40:23,948
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [39:34.431]
1153
00:40:23,948 --> 00:40:24,017
Yeah.
1154
00:40:24,017 --> 00:40:24,153
Kambria [40:00.994]
1155
00:40:24,222 --> 00:40:26,862
The less guilt you feel when you're
away from them, the more present we
1156
00:40:26,862 --> 00:40:30,165
are in winter and we can really take
in the rest and take in the slowness
1157
00:40:30,165 --> 00:40:30,662
and absorb that time to slow down
1158
00:40:30,726 --> 00:40:32,108
down and kind of reset.
1159
00:40:32,108 --> 00:40:34,872
Then when it comes to
take action, you know, but
1160
00:40:34,962 --> 00:40:36,132
and kind of reset.
1161
00:40:36,402 --> 00:40:40,222
Then when it comes to take action,
you know, but I think that's a, that's
1162
00:40:40,222 --> 00:40:44,092
really cool information for you of
like, look, look how once I kind of
1163
00:40:44,132 --> 00:40:46,632
got into that and then it was like, my
God, I don't want go back to that busy.
1164
00:40:47,472 --> 00:40:48,172
I feel you.
1165
00:40:48,692 --> 00:40:48,952
now I
1166
00:40:48,952 --> 00:40:49,532
need to like
1167
00:40:49,882 --> 00:40:53,812
now I need to get into it and actually
like put into action all the things
1168
00:40:53,812 --> 00:40:56,122
that I have been planning and thinking
1169
00:40:56,122 --> 00:41:00,252
about putting you know
during the pregnancy time
1170
00:41:00,592 --> 00:41:02,192
I'm like spring is coming.
1171
00:41:02,192 --> 00:41:02,762
It's time to give
1172
00:41:02,772 --> 00:41:05,082
birth and now it's the real work Kambria
1173
00:41:05,082 --> 00:41:05,892
[40:32.854]
1174
00:41:06,702 --> 00:41:06,932
Sure.
1175
00:41:06,932 --> 00:41:06,937
Yeah.
1176
00:41:06,942 --> 00:41:06,962
Yeah.
1177
00:41:06,972 --> 00:41:07,002
Yep
1178
00:41:07,002 --> 00:41:08,772
Ride The Wave Media Podcast Network
[40:44.315] which I actually know little
1179
00:41:08,772 --> 00:41:12,882
bit something about because before my
twins were born when I was pregnant
1180
00:41:12,942 --> 00:41:14,632
I spent two months in the hospital
1181
00:41:17,132 --> 00:41:22,182
not being able to leave because they
wanted to be there like you know with the
1182
00:41:22,182 --> 00:41:26,567
complications and stuff they were like we
want you to be on campus I wasn't in on
1183
00:41:26,832 --> 00:41:34,032
bedrest thankfully but I was like we need
you to live here and be admitted so yeah I
1184
00:41:34,032 --> 00:41:34,762
remember thinking
1185
00:41:34,762 --> 00:41:34,832
Kambria [40:45.038]
1186
00:41:34,832 --> 00:41:34,867
Thank
1187
00:41:34,867 --> 00:41:34,937
Kambria [40:52.546]
1188
00:41:34,937 --> 00:41:34,972
Whoa.
1189
00:41:34,972 --> 00:41:35,042
Kambria [41:07.201]
1190
00:41:35,042 --> 00:41:35,077
Okay.
1191
00:41:35,077 --> 00:41:35,112
Yeah.
1192
00:41:35,112 --> 00:41:35,762
Ride The Wave Media Podcast
Network [41:12.105] Everybody
1193
00:41:35,762 --> 00:41:39,912
kept telling me like, my gosh,
this must be so hard for you.
1194
00:41:40,192 --> 00:41:43,812
You just have to sit around at
the hospital all day every day.
1195
00:41:44,202 --> 00:41:45,312
This is so rough.
1196
00:41:46,252 --> 00:41:51,302
And I remember being kind
of like, actually, I'm good.
1197
00:41:51,412 --> 00:41:54,192
I I spent all day reading books, drawing
1198
00:41:54,222 --> 00:41:55,172
pictures,
1199
00:41:57,432 --> 00:41:57,872
walking
1200
00:41:57,872 --> 00:41:58,642
around The
1201
00:41:58,942 --> 00:41:59,382
hospital
1202
00:41:59,382 --> 00:42:00,122
grounds.
1203
00:42:01,322 --> 00:42:02,342
People bring me my
1204
00:42:02,602 --> 00:42:02,992
food.
1205
00:42:02,992 --> 00:42:03,452
Kambria [41:20.11]
1206
00:42:03,812 --> 00:42:03,832
So.
1207
00:42:03,832 --> 00:42:04,970
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [41:41.897]
1208
00:42:05,222 --> 00:42:07,502
Someone comes and cleans my room.
1209
00:42:07,962 --> 00:42:08,792
yeah,
1210
00:42:09,182 --> 00:42:12,202
I mean, I really kind
of, yeah, I enjoyed it.
1211
00:42:12,232 --> 00:42:15,702
Cause I thought to myself, when I
leave here, I'm leaving with two
1212
00:42:15,702 --> 00:42:18,802
babies that I have to take care of.
1213
00:42:18,812 --> 00:42:18,924
Kambria [41:44.77]
1214
00:42:18,924 --> 00:42:19,025
Yeah!
1215
00:42:19,025 --> 00:42:19,229
Let's go!
1216
00:42:19,229 --> 00:42:19,433
Kambria [41:53.934]
1217
00:42:19,433 --> 00:42:20,247
Yeah, so you just...we're
gonna soak that up,
1218
00:42:20,247 --> 00:42:20,654
Ride The Wave Media
1219
00:42:20,662 --> 00:42:21,092
Yeah,
1220
00:42:21,532 --> 00:42:23,182
Like I knew what that was
1221
00:42:23,502 --> 00:42:24,342
gonna soak that up,
1222
00:42:24,342 --> 00:42:24,351
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [41:57.781]
1223
00:42:24,351 --> 00:42:24,352
Right?
1224
00:42:24,352 --> 00:42:24,367
Like I knew what that was about.
1225
00:42:24,367 --> 00:42:24,842
Yeah.
1226
00:42:24,842 --> 00:42:25,316
So when
1227
00:42:25,316 --> 00:42:25,790
people were
1228
00:42:25,790 --> 00:42:26,027
like,
1229
00:42:26,027 --> 00:42:26,265
you
1230
00:42:26,265 --> 00:42:27,450
poor thing, I was like,
1231
00:42:27,450 --> 00:42:27,687
yeah.
1232
00:42:27,687 --> 00:42:27,925
bad.
1233
00:42:27,925 --> 00:42:28,162
Awful.
1234
00:42:28,162 --> 00:42:28,636
Not really.
1235
00:42:28,636 --> 00:42:31,245
I like, I kind of loved
it, but that's just me.
1236
00:42:31,482 --> 00:42:31,632
So
1237
00:42:32,682 --> 00:42:33,482
bad.
1238
00:42:34,242 --> 00:42:34,606
yeah, I'm looking forward to this winter.
1239
00:42:34,606 --> 00:42:34,945
I'm looking forward to
going into hibernation mode.
1240
00:42:34,945 --> 00:42:35,115
And I think my
1241
00:42:35,115 --> 00:42:35,199
Kambria [42:11.079]
1242
00:42:35,242 --> 00:42:36,072
I love that.
1243
00:42:37,302 --> 00:42:37,872
Not really.
1244
00:42:37,872 --> 00:42:40,342
I like, I kind of loved
it, but that's just me.
1245
00:42:41,072 --> 00:42:43,502
So yeah, I'm looking
forward to this winter.
1246
00:42:43,572 --> 00:42:47,982
I'm looking forward to
going into hibernation mode.
1247
00:42:48,022 --> 00:42:50,302
And I think my
1248
00:42:50,312 --> 00:42:50,345
Kambria [42:11.079]
1249
00:42:50,345 --> 00:42:50,414
I love that.
1250
00:42:50,414 --> 00:42:50,437
Yeah.
1251
00:42:50,437 --> 00:42:50,484
Kambria [42:22.434]
1252
00:42:50,484 --> 00:42:50,507
you
1253
00:42:50,507 --> 00:42:50,669
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [42:27.403]
1254
00:42:50,692 --> 00:42:54,992
final thought would be to people
like you were saying about
1255
00:42:54,992 --> 00:42:57,012
square pieces, don't resist it.
1256
00:42:57,412 --> 00:43:00,322
I think when we resist what is natural
1257
00:43:00,622 --> 00:43:01,242
is when we feel
1258
00:43:02,220 --> 00:43:03,028
you
1259
00:43:03,028 --> 00:43:05,453
Ride The Wave
1260
00:43:05,932 --> 00:43:06,672
and depressed.
1261
00:43:07,069 --> 00:43:07,592
Network
1262
00:43:07,892 --> 00:43:10,132
trying to fit in a summer
1263
00:43:10,152 --> 00:43:11,062
day's worth of
1264
00:43:11,112 --> 00:43:11,619
work
1265
00:43:11,919 --> 00:43:12,727
to
1266
00:43:12,727 --> 00:43:15,282
people like you
1267
00:43:16,342 --> 00:43:16,362
boy.
1268
00:43:16,362 --> 00:43:16,555
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [42:53.045]
1269
00:43:16,555 --> 00:43:18,312
And I mean, that doesn't work.
1270
00:43:18,372 --> 00:43:22,722
So like, don't resist the seasons, work
1271
00:43:22,756 --> 00:43:22,833
and depressed.
1272
00:43:22,833 --> 00:43:23,455
Cause you're trying to fit in a summer
day's worth of work into a winter day.
1273
00:43:23,455 --> 00:43:23,533
Kambria [42:52.05]
1274
00:43:23,533 --> 00:43:23,572
boy.
1275
00:43:23,572 --> 00:43:23,844
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [42:53.045]
1276
00:43:23,844 --> 00:43:24,077
And I mean, that doesn't work.
1277
00:43:24,077 --> 00:43:24,427
So like, don't resist the
seasons, work with them.
1278
00:43:24,427 --> 00:43:24,815
Would you have a final
thought with that in mind?
1279
00:43:24,815 --> 00:43:24,882
Kambria [43:00.917]
1280
00:43:25,182 --> 00:43:28,349
Would you have a final
thought with that in mind?
1281
00:43:28,349 --> 00:43:29,027
Kambria [43:00.917]
1282
00:43:29,082 --> 00:43:32,802
Yeah, and also, mean, yeah, to
that point, and then we think
1283
00:43:32,812 --> 00:43:34,022
about our bodies and how they
1284
00:43:34,110 --> 00:43:35,127
bodies and how
1285
00:43:35,282 --> 00:43:39,862
work and the daylight and the sunlight and
releasing cortisol and the function of our
1286
00:43:39,902 --> 00:43:45,852
actual bodies that are timed by the light
of the sun and the length of the days.
1287
00:43:45,932 --> 00:43:48,772
So even if you don't want to
jump in on this woo-woo energy of
1288
00:43:48,772 --> 00:43:54,202
astrology, just listen to nature
in your body, because they know.
1289
00:43:54,202 --> 00:43:54,405
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [43:20.567]
1290
00:43:54,405 --> 00:43:54,434
You
1291
00:43:54,434 --> 00:43:54,493
Kambria [43:31.308]
1292
00:43:54,522 --> 00:43:55,522
You know what saying?
1293
00:43:55,542 --> 00:43:56,132
They know.
1294
00:43:56,312 --> 00:43:58,812
And so that is the time.
1295
00:43:58,952 --> 00:43:59,682
The body is
1296
00:43:59,982 --> 00:44:00,203
know.
1297
00:44:00,203 --> 00:44:00,881
And so
1298
00:44:01,182 --> 00:44:01,252
meeting.
1299
00:44:01,892 --> 00:44:07,732
We're not programmed physiologically
to produce the way that we're
1300
00:44:07,882 --> 00:44:09,782
meant to produce mid-summer.
1301
00:44:10,082 --> 00:44:11,047
a huge imitation
1302
00:44:11,382 --> 00:44:14,752
And yeah, I think that's a huge
imitation and just allowing that,
1303
00:44:15,242 --> 00:44:17,212
allowing that shift and change.
1304
00:44:17,562 --> 00:44:21,312
And it's not gonna be easy too, just
so asterisk for everybody there that's
1305
00:44:21,312 --> 00:44:25,082
like, I'm gonna do that this season, know
that there will be so much resistance
1306
00:44:25,102 --> 00:44:27,382
because we're programmed, you know?
1307
00:44:27,602 --> 00:44:30,672
That it's gonna feel,
it's going to feel wrong.
1308
00:44:30,702 --> 00:44:32,882
It's going to feel like
you're going to die.
1309
00:44:33,462 --> 00:44:33,782
Right?
1310
00:44:33,932 --> 00:44:37,672
And then sooner or later, you
don't die, and you just start to
1311
00:44:38,122 --> 00:44:39,992
reprogram your brain and yeah.
1312
00:44:40,292 --> 00:44:41,206
dead, you know?
1313
00:44:41,206 --> 00:44:41,422
Then
1314
00:44:41,722 --> 00:44:43,512
Astrologically, the whole
season is not dead, you know?
1315
00:44:43,512 --> 00:44:45,338
Then we get into a
Sagittarius season, which is,
1316
00:44:45,338 --> 00:44:45,375
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [44:09.912]
1317
00:44:45,375 --> 00:44:45,380
Yeah.
1318
00:44:45,380 --> 00:44:45,391
Kambria [44:23.086]
1319
00:44:45,391 --> 00:44:45,562
actually the light in
1320
00:44:45,611 --> 00:44:46,628
Podcast Network [44:09.912]
1321
00:44:46,628 --> 00:44:46,967
Yeah.
1322
00:44:46,967 --> 00:44:47,192
Kambria
1323
00:44:47,492 --> 00:44:51,422
the darkness aka Christmas lights
in the middle of winter so you know
1324
00:44:51,722 --> 00:44:52,389
of winter
1325
00:44:52,542 --> 00:44:52,727
so
1326
00:44:52,842 --> 00:44:57,822
on about but yeah I think that's
good and hopefully you know just
1327
00:44:57,842 --> 00:45:03,632
regardless of of what transitions
the next 24 48 hours for the United
1328
00:45:03,632 --> 00:45:06,660
States you know it's just an energy of
1329
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:07,638
The Wave
1330
00:45:07,938 --> 00:45:10,332
change regardless so yeah
1331
00:45:10,349 --> 00:45:11,704
Media Podcast Network [44:48.873]
1332
00:45:11,704 --> 00:45:13,462
All right, good reminder.
1333
00:45:15,552 --> 00:45:16,725
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [44:27.099]
1334
00:45:16,725 --> 00:45:16,973
Yeah.
1335
00:45:16,973 --> 00:45:17,718
Ride The Wave
1336
00:45:17,718 --> 00:45:18,712
Media Podcast Network [44:48.873]
1337
00:45:18,712 --> 00:45:19,705
All right, good reminder.
1338
00:45:19,705 --> 00:45:20,450
We can do
1339
00:45:20,472 --> 00:45:21,592
All right, well,
1340
00:45:22,382 --> 00:45:23,312
let's let people
1341
00:45:23,312 --> 00:45:23,632
know how
1342
00:45:23,642 --> 00:45:25,142
they can find you, especially
1343
00:45:25,192 --> 00:45:26,055
if they're looking to do
1344
00:45:26,055 --> 00:45:26,162
Kambria [44:49.738]
1345
00:45:26,162 --> 00:45:26,270
Right now.
1346
00:45:26,270 --> 00:45:26,323
Totally.
1347
00:45:26,323 --> 00:45:26,698
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [45:03.457]
1348
00:45:26,752 --> 00:45:29,432
birth chart readings or what events
1349
00:45:29,432 --> 00:45:30,932
and things are coming
up for Kaya community.
1350
00:45:31,212 --> 00:45:31,622
Can you let
1351
00:45:31,622 --> 00:45:31,782
us
1352
00:45:31,873 --> 00:45:32,618
you let us
1353
00:45:32,618 --> 00:45:32,867
know?
1354
00:45:32,867 --> 00:45:33,363
Kambria [45:09.442]
1355
00:45:33,612 --> 00:45:36,472
Yeah, so the easiest way to book a
birth chart is through my website,
1356
00:45:36,512 --> 00:45:37,482
TheCambryAdivis and Cambry is
1357
00:45:39,502 --> 00:45:41,922
with a K, TheCambryAdivis.com.
1358
00:45:42,332 --> 00:45:46,312
I'm actually increasing my
birth chart pricing in December.
1359
00:45:46,392 --> 00:45:50,832
So if people are interested and have been
interested, now is the time to do it.
1360
00:45:52,112 --> 00:45:57,272
And so those are so powerful and
honestly such a cool Christmas
1361
00:45:57,272 --> 00:45:59,632
gift, a cool gift to people.
1362
00:45:59,922 --> 00:46:02,402
Or just on Instagram
too at Kaya Community,
1363
00:46:02,662 --> 00:46:06,146
is with K's or Cambry Davis on
Instagram also Cambry with a K.
1364
00:46:06,146 --> 00:46:06,156
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [45:45.278]
1365
00:46:06,156 --> 00:46:06,161
Perfect, yes.
1366
00:46:06,161 --> 00:46:06,193
And I'm on Prism Healing.
1367
00:46:06,193 --> 00:46:06,238
So my website prism-healing.com
where you can book any of my healing
1368
00:46:06,238 --> 00:46:06,271
services, including card readings
sessions, which are super helpful
1369
00:46:06,271 --> 00:46:06,294
for those moments when you're like,
1370
00:46:06,294 --> 00:46:06,301
Kambria [45:58.584]
1371
00:46:06,301 --> 00:46:06,305
Bye.
1372
00:46:06,305 --> 00:46:06,331
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [46:01.166]
1373
00:46:06,331 --> 00:46:06,368
What's going on and
what do I need to know?
1374
00:46:06,368 --> 00:46:06,420
So I offer a lot of different kinds
of spreads and card reading sessions
1375
00:46:06,420 --> 00:46:06,450
and you can book there on my website.
1376
00:46:06,450 --> 00:46:06,495
Follow me on Instagram at prism
underscore healing or on TikTok for
1377
00:46:06,495 --> 00:46:06,551
now for as long as TikTok is around
at prism healing and I'm on Facebook
1378
00:46:06,551 --> 00:46:06,566
Courtney Pearls prism healing.
1379
00:46:06,566 --> 00:46:06,577
So check out
1380
00:46:06,577 --> 00:46:06,611
The Kaya podcast, the Practically
Magic podcast, follow, subscribe,
1381
00:46:06,611 --> 00:46:06,742
and share if you have an episode that
particularly resonates with you and
1382
00:46:06,742 --> 00:46:06,744
you think that someone could use that
information in their lives to help them.
1383
00:46:06,744 --> 00:46:06,746
It would only improve our quality of
recording episodes for you and to be
1384
00:46:06,746 --> 00:46:06,748
able to keep providing you with the
help and information that you need.
1385
00:46:06,748 --> 00:46:06,750
So I guess that's it for today.
1386
00:46:06,750 --> 00:46:06,750
Please.
1387
00:46:06,750 --> 00:46:06,754
Reach out to us on our DMs and say hello.
1388
00:46:06,754 --> 00:46:06,757
We'd love to hear from you.
1389
00:46:06,757 --> 00:46:06,758
Right?
1390
00:46:06,758 --> 00:46:06,761
Go make magic.
1391
00:46:06,761 --> 00:46:06,765
Kambria [47:02.902]
1392
00:46:06,765 --> 00:46:06,782
Yeah, thank you.
1393
00:46:09,152 --> 00:46:09,152
[45:09.442]
1394
00:46:09,152 --> 00:46:09,155
Yeah, so the easiest way to book a
birth chart is through my website,
1395
00:46:09,155 --> 00:46:09,157
TheCambryAdivis and Cambry is
with a K, TheCambryAdivis.com.
1396
00:46:09,157 --> 00:46:09,158
I'm actually increasing my
birth chart pricing in December.
1397
00:46:09,158 --> 00:46:09,162
So if people are interested and have been
interested, now is the time to do it.
1398
00:46:09,162 --> 00:46:09,164
And so those are so powerful and
honestly such a cool Christmas
1399
00:46:09,164 --> 00:46:09,166
gift, a cool gift to people.
1400
00:46:09,166 --> 00:46:09,168
Or just on Instagram
too at Kaya Community,
1401
00:46:09,168 --> 00:46:09,174
is with K's or Cambry Davis on
Instagram also Cambry with a K.
1402
00:46:09,174 --> 00:46:09,185
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [45:45.278]
1403
00:46:09,185 --> 00:46:09,422
Perfect, yes.
1404
00:46:09,462 --> 00:46:11,192
And I'm on Prism Healing.
1405
00:46:11,212 --> 00:46:16,732
So my website prism-healing.com
where you can book any of my healing
1406
00:46:16,732 --> 00:46:22,272
services, including card readings
sessions, which are super helpful
1407
00:46:22,572 --> 00:46:23,892
for those moments when you're like,
1408
00:46:23,892 --> 00:46:24,023
Kambria [45:58.584]
1409
00:46:24,023 --> 00:46:24,054
Bye.
1410
00:46:24,054 --> 00:46:24,271
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [46:01.166]
1411
00:46:24,302 --> 00:46:26,922
What's going on and
what do I need to know?
1412
00:46:27,982 --> 00:46:32,562
So I offer a lot of different kinds
of spreads and card reading sessions
1413
00:46:33,232 --> 00:46:35,062
and you can book there on my website.
1414
00:46:35,762 --> 00:46:42,102
Follow me on Instagram at prism
underscore healing or on TikTok for
1415
00:46:42,102 --> 00:46:47,422
now for as long as TikTok is around
at prism healing and I'm on Facebook
1416
00:46:48,442 --> 00:46:49,772
Courtney Pearls prism healing.
1417
00:46:50,562 --> 00:46:56,042
So check out The Kaya podcast,
the Practically Magic podcast,
1418
00:46:56,042 --> 00:47:00,132
follow, subscribe, and share if you
have an episode that particularly
1419
00:47:00,132 --> 00:47:04,252
resonates with you and you think that
someone could use that information
1420
00:47:04,252 --> 00:47:05,912
in their lives to help them.
1421
00:47:06,952 --> 00:47:11,882
It would only improve our quality of
recording episodes for you and to be
1422
00:47:11,882 --> 00:47:16,482
able to keep providing you with the
help and information that you need.
1423
00:47:17,522 --> 00:47:20,482
So I guess that's it for today.
1424
00:47:20,552 --> 00:47:20,832
Please.
1425
00:47:21,312 --> 00:47:23,742
Reach out to us on our DMs and say hello.
1426
00:47:23,752 --> 00:47:24,892
We'd love to hear from you.
1427
00:47:25,162 --> 00:47:25,552
Right?
1428
00:47:26,572 --> 00:47:26,967
Go make magic.
1429
00:47:26,967 --> 00:47:27,172
Kambria [47:02.902]
1430
00:47:27,372 --> 00:47:28,702
Yeah, thank you.