Witches, Wealth, and Well-being: The Magic Of Money w/ Kathy Poss

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This is Courtney Pearl, your
local folk witch and healer.

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Today I am joined by Kathy Poss, who
is a financial wellness and budget

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coach for solo women in wealth.

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Welcome, Kathy.

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Kathy Poss

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Hello and welcome to Practically Magic.

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This is Courtney Pearl, your
local folk witch and healer.

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Today I am joined by Kathy Poss, who
is a financial wellness and budget

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coach for solo women in wealth.

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Welcome, Kathy.

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Kathy Poss [00:18.392]

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Thank you so much Courtney.

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Courtney.

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I

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I love this and I love what you do and
I've been looking forward to talking

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to you today and just thank you for
welcoming me into your universe.

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I love it.

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and wacky and woo woo universe.

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a lot of people, I mean, we've met
at the Daybreak Business Community

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and a lot of people might think
that we don't have a lot in common.

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know, Kathy is very well put together.

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She is very professional.

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She is athletic and professional, you
know, financial advisor and coach.

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you know, here I show up at these
business meetings and I'm like,

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hey, I'm Daybreak's local witch.

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You know.

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And the more I've gotten to know you
is we'll talk about a little bit later.

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I'm like, there's actually a lot we
have in common that I think people

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will be surprised to find out.

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So I'm excited to dive into that.

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Well, we're going to start with
pulling a card as we usually do.

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So Cathy can help me analyze
this card if she wants to.

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We're going to pull from today I have the
Celtic Tarot deck from Christopher Hughes.

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Kathy Poss [01:12.344]

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Network [00:34.925]

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and wacky and woo woo universe.

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a lot of people, I mean, we've met
at the Daybreak Business Community

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and a lot of people might think
that we don't have a lot in common.

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know, Kathy is very well put together.

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She is very professional.

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She is athletic and professional, you
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you know, here I show up at these
business meetings and I'm like,

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hey, I'm Daybreak's local witch.

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You know.

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And the more I've gotten to know you
is we'll talk about a little bit later.

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I'm like, there's actually a lot we
have in common that I think people

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will be surprised to find out.

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Absolutely.

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I'm excited to dive into that.

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Well, we're going to start with
pulling a card as we usually do.

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So Cathy can help me analyze
this card if she wants to.

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We're going

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YouTube,

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to pull from today I have the Celtic
Tarot deck from Christopher Hughes.

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Kathy Poss [01:12.344]

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Absolutely.

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Yeah.

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I'm a big fan of his.

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He wrote the book Druidry.

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He's head of the Anglesey Order
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hope to be a part of someday.

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It's kind of my long-term
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And Nepal.

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today I have pulled the
card the Six of Cauldrons,

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Scotland.

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in a traditional tarot deck,
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it.

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so we're talking about
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the fields, little purple

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I think, so I'm gonna look
at this if you can see, well,

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I'm gonna try to pull it in.

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There's little girl and this cauldron
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background on the stone monument.

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I think that Scottish thistle that's
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cauldron, they're handing
each other in this picture.

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So if you watch on YouTube,
you can see the image.

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Kathy Poss [02:07.992]

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Thank you guys.

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But I normally the number six is Harmony.

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And the Scottish thistle, just
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it's a very invasive flower.

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It's the national flower of Scotland.

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And it was brought here to America.

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And you've probably seen it.

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We have it in Utah everywhere, like in
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And they're all over the mountains.

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They're...

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Kathy Poss [02:31.48]

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Yeah, they're pretty invasive.

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mean, they kind of just take over.

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Once they plant themselves somewhere,
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them grow, which I think to me
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So as we're talking about money today,
we're going to talk about money.

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I think this is a really hopeful
card for all of us because it's

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just talking about like passing on.

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We have an older person passing
this on to a younger person.

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And I think it's kind of like
creating our own abundance in life.

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Kathy Poss [03:13.549]

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creating belief systems of abundance
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that on to future generations.

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we're

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Do you have

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money today, we're going
to talk about money.

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I think this is a really hopeful
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just talking about like passing on.

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We have an older person passing
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And I think it's kind of like
creating our own abundance in life.

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creating belief systems of abundance
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that on to future generations.

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Do you have any thoughts about

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I Yeah.

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I love the thistle.

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I I grew up in the East Coast
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I thought when I was growing up, I
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I thought they were just
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can be such

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the thistle.

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subject to talk about, but yet

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person's perspective, it's

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a beautiful thing.

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I thought when I was growing up, I
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I thought they were just
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Many can be such a prickly subject to
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perspective, it's a beautiful thing.

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because I've heard it said, legend says
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for them because it was so prickly
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leathery and they were able to march
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thistle without harming their feet.

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But then invading armies didn't
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and it helped protect Scotland.

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can be beautiful can
also be a little prickly.

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Kathy Poss [04:27.212]

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Woo.

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Kathy Poss

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great flower for them
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and it actually can be to our benefit.

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Kathy Poss

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Well, I'm going to dive into a story here
that I just, we're going to talk about

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finances, wealth, money, prosperity.

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did a money spell a

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I actually just did a money
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So for those of you listening, if
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I made a reel of my money spell.

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why not?

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I'm going

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haven't, I haven't made a habit of doing
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I'm going to give this a try.

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I took a green candle, I cut an orange
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top and then I wrapped a leaf with red
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money, how much money I wanted to attract,
wrapped it on the candle and then I put

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it in the orange and then I lit it and
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to be in October.

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Mm-hmm.

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It's not the end of October at this
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So I'll have to give an update to see if
my money shows up by the end of the month.

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It was supposed to be in October.

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So I was like, it's an October spell.

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I'm like, let's give it a shot.

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I've done things like this before.

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And I have been able to manifest
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put out into the universe.

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So this is just another
different way of doing it.

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And we'll see how it with it.

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love it.

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I love it.

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Might want to try

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Might want to try it, you know, if
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So we've been hanging

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out at the DBC for what, a year now.

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Kathy Poss

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Yes, I know.

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Time flies.

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That's great.

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Yes, I know.

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Time flies.

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It was so wonderful to like have
so many different people with their

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different areas of expertise just,
you know, coming together and being

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like, well, I do this and I do this.

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But when you did your, it was the
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went and you did your presentation,
kind of just showcasing what you do.

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yeah, finances, wealth, sure.

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It's great to help people with that.

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And I've always been pretty
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It's great to help people with that.

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And I've always been pretty
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I may not be the most
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I'm still writing my
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That's where I'm at right now.

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No QuickBooks

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That's where I'm at right now.

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No QuickBooks for...

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personal finances, personal as we say.

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So I'm still doing it the old
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now is all I really need.

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belief systems and talking about
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this is a lot of the work that

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I do in the healing world.

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As far as when I'm doing emotional
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helping them unblock things that

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have in their subconscious.

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And you can't manifest money or wealth
or prosperity without kind of being

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aware or unblocking what scarcity
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Can you speak a little bit about that?

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Great.

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And you can't manifest money or wealth
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aware or unblocking what scarcity
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Can you speak a little bit about that?

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Absolutely, yeah.

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mean, I love this, Courtney, because
it's really meaningful to me because

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diving into what blocked my own personal
journey has created so much in my life.

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you know, I look at money personally is,
know, money is just a tool and I don't...

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really focus on myself
or my clients on numbers.

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It's really how it makes you be
able to create a life of purpose.

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And so I always start there.

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What is your purpose and your values?

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we intersect because we're both,
we're all saying the same thing.

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You know, right?

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mean, no matter where you are in
your wellness journey, I mean,

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we're all wanting to just live a
life where of joy, not in fear,

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not in scarcity, but in abundance.

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And in abundance can be, you know, a
different meaning to everyone as well.

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I want to get here, what are those
mindsets that I have, one, probably

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grown up with since I was really small.

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So we have our money
stories in our role models.

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And then that has created some behaviors
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you know, we need to look at and
see if, you know, certain behaviors

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are blocking where we want to
go in life with our finances.

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And to me, that's incredibly important
because like I tell my clients,

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there's a math way to do things.

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Okay, you know, math is pretty objective.

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You know, it's one plus one is two, right?

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I mean, we can't really
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But really what matters the most are
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our attitudes and putting benchmarks or
putting social norms that we may take on

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ourselves is a lot of times a disservice
because it just doesn't align with us.

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because diving into what blocked
my own personal journey has

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created so much in my life.

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why isn't

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start there.

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What is your purpose and your values?

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And that's where I think the
wellness community, that's where

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we intersect because we're both,
we're all saying the same thing.

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You know, right?

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mean, no matter where you are in
your wellness journey, I mean,

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we're all wanting to just live a
life where of joy, not in fear,

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not in scarcity, but in abundance.

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And in abundance can be, you know, a
different meaning to everyone as well.

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And so then when we go back
and we say, okay, well,

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Kathy Poss [09:28.694]

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I want to get here,

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what are those mindsets that
I have, one, probably grown up

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with since I was really small.

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So we have our money
stories in our role models.

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And then that has created some
behaviors that have been beneficial,

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Podcast

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me, that's incredibly important

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because like I tell my clients,
there's a math way to do things.

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Okay, you know, math is pretty objective.

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You know, it's one plus one is two, right?

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I mean, we can't really
argue those things, but.

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You

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Kathy Poss [10:21.474]

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But really what matters the most
are behaviors and how we feel

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towards it in our attitudes and

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Yeah.

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is a lot of times a disservice
because it just doesn't align with us.

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And so we're kind of out there
going, why isn't this working?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Kathy Poss [10:50.84]

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It's really the heart of what I do.

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And I did win that night of Business
in Bloom, the Go Giver book, which is

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still sitting on my shelf along with
my long list of books I need to read.

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So I'm like, I know how important it is.

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I know it's gonna be a great read.

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So I'm like, there it is.

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I have a long way to go when it comes to
my own interaction with money and how...

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Kathy Poss [11:03.245]

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You

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Kathy Poss [11:07.714]

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Me too.

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It's interesting in the healing
world how it is very similar

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to other aspects of healing.

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And I will be interviewing a fitness
coach in a couple of weeks and

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we'll talk a little bit about that.

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But really in my world, there's not
a lot of difference in what we're

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healing within ourselves to be
able to unblock what it is we want.

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Whether it's like money or whether
it's losing weight and getting fit.

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I don't know if you've...

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Kathy Poss [11:45.034]

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Great.

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Kathy Poss [11:49.035]

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Right.

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sure you probably have at least
heard of it, the book Atomic Habits.

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Kathy Poss [11:56.246]

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yes, I use it all the time.

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about it a lot with clients because
I'm like, your subconscious is a jury

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of, you know, 11 people who all think
you're not good enough, or they don't

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deserve the money you'd like to have,
or the prosperity and success you'd

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like to have, or, or your fitness
goals, you know, whatever that might be.

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There's a jury in your subconscious.

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And then there's one juror that

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Kathy Poss [12:12.354]

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ready.

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does believe that you're worthy
and that's the one that you're

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hearing going, I want this so bad.

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Like I want it and I
feel it and I want it.

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But how do you get that one juror to
convince the other 11 that you are worthy?

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Like you're gonna be able to get this.

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It's not enough to just say, okay,
I want this much money so I'm

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just gonna save this much money.

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I'm just not gonna spend as much and

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And I did win that night of Business
in Bloom, the Go Giver book, which is

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still sitting on my shelf along with
my long list of books I need to read.

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[ 12:57.942]

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So I'm like, I know how important it is.

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I know it's gonna be a great read.

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So I'm like, there it is.

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I have a long way to go when it comes to
my own interaction with money and how...

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Kathy Poss [11:03.245]

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You

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Kathy Poss [11:07.714]

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Me too.

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It's interesting in the healing
world how it is very similar

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to other aspects of healing.

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And I will be interviewing a fitness
coach in a couple of weeks and

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we'll talk a little bit about that.

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But really in my world, there's not
a lot of difference in what we're

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healing within ourselves to be
able to unblock what it is we want.

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Whether it's like money or whether
it's losing weight and getting fit.

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I don't know if you've...

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Kathy Poss [11:45.034]

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Great.

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Kathy Poss [11:49.035]

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Right.

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sure you probably have at least
heard of it, the book Atomic Habits.

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Kathy Poss [11:56.246]

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yes, I use it all the time.

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Ride

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Ride The Wave Media Podcast

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it a lot with clients because I'm
like, your subconscious is a jury

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of, you know, 11 people who all think

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where you

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not good enough, or they don't deserve
the money you'd like to have, or the

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prosperity and success you'd like
to have, or, or your fitness goals,

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you know, whatever that might be.

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There's a jury in your subconscious.

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And then there's one juror that

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Kathy Poss [12:12.354]

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ready.

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does believe that you're worthy
and that's the one that you're

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hearing going, I want this so bad.

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Like I want it and I
feel it and I want it.

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But do you get that one juror to convince
the other 11 that you are worthy?

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Like you're gonna be able to get this.

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It's not enough to just say, okay,
I want this much money so I'm

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just gonna save this much money.

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I'm just not gonna spend
as much and I'm gonna save.

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Kathy Poss [12:57.942]

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Right.

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Sounds so simple.

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Like you said, that's just
numbers, But doing it, that's

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where you get stuck, right?

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Kathy Poss [13:02.008]

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That's numbers.

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Yeah, it is.

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But yeah.

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Right.

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yeah, doing

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numbers.

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Yeah, it is.

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yourself why.

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And in making sure that aligns
with something you are so tied

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into personally that I am willing
to go, there's a balance, right?

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I mean, there's a balance.

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If I'm gonna save because I'm
really connected to this purpose

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and who I am and my values, then it
should be pretty easy to say, I'm

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gonna not do these other things.

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I'm not gonna spend this money.

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I'm gonna look at that behavior because
I'm so connected with why I'm saving.

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And we can go through all the, so many of
those scenarios, but really just getting

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really focused in and
living in a sense of joy.

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And this is, and not just for the future.

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You know, we think about the
future so much, which is important.

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I mean, I am, you know, in what I do.

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We think about the future and I want
everyone to be prepared for the future.

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But for right now, you know,
we can live this right now.

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And that's really important because

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Kathy Poss [14:38.828]

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You know, of my experiences I've gone
through in the last six years, yeah,

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you never know what tomorrow will be.

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So it's important to, you know, get all

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the doingness gets stuck because,
you know, why are you saving?

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You know, why?

494
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And then go, go keep asking yourself why.

495
00:13:50,253 --> 00:13:53,973
And in making sure that aligns with

496
00:13:54,329 --> 00:13:59,346
start

497
00:13:59,833 --> 00:14:03,703
I am willing to go,
there's a balance, right?

498
00:14:03,703 --> 00:14:05,183
I mean, there's a balance.

499
00:14:05,293 --> 00:14:09,273
If I'm gonna save because I'm
really connected to this purpose

500
00:14:09,603 --> 00:14:18,263
and who I am and my values, then it
should be pretty easy to say, I'm

501
00:14:18,263 --> 00:14:20,043
gonna not do these other things.

502
00:14:20,043 --> 00:14:21,463
I'm not gonna spend this money.

503
00:14:21,723 --> 00:14:27,173
I'm gonna look at that behavior because
I'm so connected with why I'm saving.

504
00:14:28,083 --> 00:14:34,163
And we can go through all the, so many of
those scenarios, but really just getting

505
00:14:34,473 --> 00:14:38,853
really focused in and
living in a sense of joy.

506
00:14:39,573 --> 00:14:43,983
And this is, and not just for the future.

507
00:14:44,343 --> 00:14:47,123
You know, we think about the
future so much, which is important.

508
00:14:47,273 --> 00:14:50,203
I mean, I am, you know, in what I do.

509
00:14:50,213 --> 00:14:53,613
We think about the future and I want
everyone to be prepared for the future.

510
00:14:54,003 --> 00:14:59,153
But for right now, you know,
we can live this right now.

511
00:14:59,543 --> 00:14:59,993
Yeah,

512
00:15:00,413 --> 00:15:03,073
And that's really important because

513
00:15:04,153 --> 00:15:04,441
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514
00:15:04,441 --> 00:15:04,493
Yeah.

515
00:15:04,493 --> 00:15:04,545
Yeah.

516
00:15:04,545 --> 00:15:04,701
Kathy Poss [14:38.828]

517
00:15:04,753 --> 00:15:09,273
You know, of my experiences I've gone
through in the last six years, yeah,

518
00:15:13,163 --> 00:15:14,833
you never know what tomorrow will be.

519
00:15:14,833 --> 00:15:20,913
So it's important to, you
know, get all that aligned and

520
00:15:21,833 --> 00:15:23,153
start living your life now.

521
00:15:23,153 --> 00:15:47,344
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522
00:15:47,344 --> 00:15:47,347
Yeah, and when you talk about living
in joy, I love that you've said

523
00:15:47,347 --> 00:15:47,348
that because what I teach and what I

524
00:15:47,348 --> 00:15:47,350
work with clients and you do too.

525
00:15:47,350 --> 00:15:47,352
See, that's why I think, you know,
you wouldn't call yourself a witch.

526
00:15:47,352 --> 00:15:47,354
You wouldn't call yourself a healer,
but people don't realize you probably

527
00:15:47,354 --> 00:15:47,356
are more than you think you are.

528
00:15:47,356 --> 00:15:47,358
Because what we're both doing, work
that we're doing is helping people

529
00:15:47,358 --> 00:15:47,362
to resonate their whole body and mind
and soul with the same vibrational

530
00:15:47,362 --> 00:15:47,366
frequency, which is going to be more

531
00:15:47,366 --> 00:15:47,368
Kathy Poss [15:08.578]

532
00:15:47,368 --> 00:15:47,369
Mm-hmm.

533
00:15:47,369 --> 00:15:47,370
Yeah.

534
00:15:47,370 --> 00:15:47,377
Kathy Poss [15:21.248]

535
00:15:47,377 --> 00:15:47,498
My kids do.

536
00:15:47,498 --> 00:15:47,703
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537
00:15:47,703 --> 00:15:47,704
aligned with joy to match the
future they're trying to attract.

538
00:15:47,704 --> 00:15:47,705
So being able to manifest like, and
I love that you keep saying the why,

539
00:15:47,705 --> 00:15:47,706
figuring out the why, you helping coach
people on that rather than the how,

540
00:15:47,706 --> 00:15:47,707
because a lot of people, I mean, I'm
guilty of it probably more than anybody.

541
00:15:47,707 --> 00:15:47,708
It's just like my own
upbringing, my own, you know,

542
00:15:47,708 --> 00:15:47,708
young child belief systems
that come up, but it's like,

543
00:15:47,708 --> 00:15:47,709
how am I going to get there?

544
00:15:47,709 --> 00:15:47,710
I have this goal.

545
00:15:47,710 --> 00:15:47,711
Now I need to figure out how.

546
00:15:47,711 --> 00:15:47,712
And I have learned that the
how is so much less important

547
00:15:47,712 --> 00:15:47,713
than I would have ever thought.

548
00:15:47,713 --> 00:15:47,717
I thought you were supposed to make a
plan and you were supposed to, you know,

549
00:15:47,717 --> 00:15:47,728
outline all the steps to take and that it
would be this and this and this and this.

550
00:15:47,728 --> 00:15:51,613
And really, you can't do any

551
00:15:51,683 --> 00:15:57,263
work that we're doing is helping people
to resonate their whole body and mind

552
00:15:57,313 --> 00:16:01,993
and soul with the same vibrational
frequency, which is going to be more

553
00:16:01,993 --> 00:16:02,083
Kathy Poss [15:08.578]

554
00:16:02,083 --> 00:16:02,113
Mm-hmm.

555
00:16:02,113 --> 00:16:02,143
Yeah.

556
00:16:02,143 --> 00:16:02,233
Kathy Poss [15:21.248]

557
00:16:02,233 --> 00:16:02,323
My kids do.

558
00:16:02,323 --> 00:16:02,533
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559
00:16:02,563 --> 00:16:07,813
aligned with joy to match the
future they're trying to attract.

560
00:16:08,013 --> 00:16:13,303
So being able to manifest like, and
I love that you keep saying the why,

561
00:16:13,693 --> 00:16:18,583
figuring out the why, you helping coach
people on that rather than the how,

562
00:16:19,243 --> 00:16:25,573
because a lot of people, I mean, I'm
guilty of it probably more than anybody.

563
00:16:25,593 --> 00:16:29,773
It's just like my own
upbringing, my own, you know,

564
00:16:30,223 --> 00:16:33,463
young child belief systems
that come up, but it's like,

565
00:16:33,493 --> 00:16:34,703
how am I going to get there?

566
00:16:35,253 --> 00:16:36,453
I have this goal.

567
00:16:36,763 --> 00:16:37,973
Now I need to figure out how.

568
00:16:38,543 --> 00:16:42,793
And I have learned that the
how is so much less important

569
00:16:42,833 --> 00:16:44,173
than I would have ever thought.

570
00:16:44,573 --> 00:16:47,933
I thought you were supposed to make a
plan and you were supposed to, you know,

571
00:16:48,663 --> 00:16:53,178
outline all the steps to take and that it
would be this and this and this and this.

572
00:16:53,403 --> 00:16:58,070
And really, you can't do any of that
without first resonating at the right

573
00:16:58,070 --> 00:16:58,136
Kathy Poss [16:09.368]

574
00:16:58,136 --> 00:16:58,158
Great.

575
00:16:58,158 --> 00:16:58,180
Great.

576
00:16:58,180 --> 00:16:58,247
Kathy Poss [16:18.806]

577
00:16:58,247 --> 00:16:58,269
Right.

578
00:16:58,269 --> 00:16:58,291
Yeah.

579
00:16:58,313 --> 00:17:00,973
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580
00:17:00,973 --> 00:17:05,813
frequency, like being resonating in
joy and gratitude in your now and

581
00:17:05,813 --> 00:17:09,393
present moment, and then being able
to be like, okay, now what's my why?

582
00:17:09,403 --> 00:17:10,813
Why am I trying to get there?

583
00:17:11,323 --> 00:17:16,333
It's your will that propels
you there, not the how, right?

584
00:17:16,493 --> 00:17:17,043
Exactly.

585
00:17:17,373 --> 00:17:17,773
yeah.

586
00:17:17,873 --> 00:17:18,283
Yeah.

587
00:17:18,363 --> 00:17:22,013
I mean, there's how many clients
have come to me and said, I

588
00:17:22,013 --> 00:17:23,713
just can't make my budget work.

589
00:17:23,763 --> 00:17:25,243
Why can't I make this work?

590
00:17:25,263 --> 00:17:28,813
You know, I mean, it shouldn't be
this hard, but I can't find the tool.

591
00:17:28,813 --> 00:17:30,403
I can't find the right tool.

592
00:17:30,703 --> 00:17:32,623
I can't have the right spreadsheet.

593
00:17:34,223 --> 00:17:38,023
You know, those are great,
but that's, that's not why,

594
00:17:39,223 --> 00:17:50,583
[ 16:50.238]

595
00:17:50,583 --> 00:17:50,583
Exactly.

596
00:17:50,583 --> 00:17:50,584
yeah.

597
00:17:50,584 --> 00:17:50,584
Yeah.

598
00:17:50,584 --> 00:17:50,586
I mean, there's how many clients
have come to me and said, I

599
00:17:50,586 --> 00:17:50,586
just can't make my budget work.

600
00:17:50,586 --> 00:17:50,587
Why can't I make this work?

601
00:17:50,587 --> 00:17:50,590
You know, I mean, it shouldn't be
this hard, but I can't find the tool.

602
00:17:50,590 --> 00:17:50,590
I can't find the right tool.

603
00:17:50,590 --> 00:17:50,591
I can't have the right spreadsheet.

604
00:17:50,591 --> 00:17:50,593
You know, those are great, but
that's, that's not why, you know,

605
00:17:50,593 --> 00:17:50,595
I mean, that's you, you need to, I
mean, I always say the budget is it's

606
00:17:50,595 --> 00:17:50,597
a bad word that people don't want
to hear, but it's your story.

607
00:17:50,597 --> 00:17:50,599
I think that as your story, this is you.

608
00:17:50,599 --> 00:17:50,604
You get to create your story and create,
you can call it whatever you want, a

609
00:17:50,604 --> 00:17:50,609
vision that you feel really connected to.

610
00:17:50,609 --> 00:17:50,616
And then, yeah, you're right.

611
00:17:50,616 --> 00:17:50,623
The how.

612
00:17:50,623 --> 00:18:09,963
Ride

613
00:18:10,023 --> 00:18:11,123
then, yeah, you're right.

614
00:18:11,643 --> 00:18:12,333
The how.

615
00:18:13,183 --> 00:18:13,296
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616
00:18:13,296 --> 00:18:13,304
store.

617
00:18:13,304 --> 00:18:13,362
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618
00:18:13,362 --> 00:18:13,370
Mm-hmm.

619
00:18:13,370 --> 00:18:13,395
Kathy Poss [17:47.448]

620
00:18:13,403 --> 00:18:15,923
Okay, well there's a lot of reason.

621
00:18:15,923 --> 00:18:19,783
I can throw tools at you and
resources and I've got all the

622
00:18:19,783 --> 00:18:22,553
how, but the hard work is the why.

623
00:18:22,654 --> 00:18:22,818
[ 17:57.003]

624
00:18:22,983 --> 00:18:23,713
Yes!

625
00:18:23,713 --> 00:18:24,185
Ride

626
00:18:24,433 --> 00:18:27,633
all that aligned and
getting really deep into

627
00:18:27,959 --> 00:18:28,903
Poss [18:15.21]

628
00:18:28,903 --> 00:18:29,846
For instance,

629
00:18:29,893 --> 00:18:37,663
what is your money story and what kind
of attitudes do you have towards money?

630
00:18:37,663 --> 00:18:39,282
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631
00:18:39,513 --> 00:18:39,703
Yes!

632
00:18:39,703 --> 00:18:40,383
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633
00:18:40,383 --> 00:18:40,533
Hmm?

634
00:18:40,533 --> 00:18:40,983
Kathy Poss [18:15.21]

635
00:18:41,133 --> 00:18:45,803
For instance, when I bring in my
money habitudes and we talk about

636
00:18:45,886 --> 00:18:46,830
a lot

637
00:18:47,023 --> 00:18:47,973
someone being

638
00:18:48,245 --> 00:18:49,189
other people.

639
00:18:49,203 --> 00:18:52,783
gifter, because I work only
with women, women are givers.

640
00:18:53,503 --> 00:18:57,413
So I see a lot of women who
are spending a lot of money

641
00:18:57,681 --> 00:18:59,096
are we gifting

642
00:18:59,243 --> 00:18:59,873
other people.

643
00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:00,983
is so

644
00:19:01,163 --> 00:19:03,713
Okay, so right, I mean we do.

645
00:19:03,814 --> 00:19:04,757
we are.

646
00:19:04,757 --> 00:19:05,701
That's our

647
00:19:05,943 --> 00:19:08,393
are we, is that aligned?

648
00:19:08,913 --> 00:19:10,213
We assume it is.

649
00:19:10,923 --> 00:19:12,873
But are we gifting

650
00:19:13,249 --> 00:19:14,664
it a little

651
00:19:15,113 --> 00:19:17,473
because that is so important to us.

652
00:19:17,623 --> 00:19:18,943
That is who we are.

653
00:19:18,943 --> 00:19:20,293
That's our identity.

654
00:19:20,733 --> 00:19:20,923
I

655
00:19:21,269 --> 00:19:22,213
bit of,

656
00:19:22,473 --> 00:19:24,123
just want to give it away.

657
00:19:24,443 --> 00:19:26,133
That is what fills me up.

658
00:19:26,713 --> 00:19:26,983
Or

659
00:19:27,402 --> 00:19:27,874
Network

660
00:19:28,123 --> 00:19:30,403
is it a little bit of FOMO?

661
00:19:30,483 --> 00:19:32,323
Is it a little bit of status?

662
00:19:32,383 --> 00:19:36,953
Is it a little bit of,
well, I've got to keep up?

663
00:19:36,953 --> 00:19:37,277
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664
00:19:37,323 --> 00:19:37,493
You

665
00:19:37,733 --> 00:19:38,603
Kathy Poss [19:12.984]

666
00:19:38,725 --> 00:19:40,140
that you're willing

667
00:19:40,233 --> 00:19:41,493
that and what's,

668
00:19:41,555 --> 00:19:43,914
other things because of it.

669
00:19:44,003 --> 00:19:47,153
know, making sure that
if that is your why,

670
00:19:47,217 --> 00:19:48,160
you not

671
00:19:48,303 --> 00:19:51,153
that you're willing to up some
other things because of it.

672
00:19:51,823 --> 00:19:55,643
Which is, yeah, I'm never gonna
tell you not to do, you know, no

673
00:19:55,643 --> 00:19:59,193
one ever should tell you not to
do what's really connected to you.

674
00:19:59,483 --> 00:20:00,898
Wave Media Podcast

675
00:20:01,023 --> 00:20:01,963
Yeah, I mean,

676
00:20:02,313 --> 00:20:07,763
Well, and I can tell you that
if it doesn't actually feel them

677
00:20:07,773 --> 00:20:11,863
like they think it will, that
will become evident eventually.

678
00:20:11,863 --> 00:20:12,617
Kathy Poss [19:43.736]

679
00:20:12,617 --> 00:20:12,861
Right.

680
00:20:12,861 --> 00:20:13,105
absolutely.

681
00:20:13,203 --> 00:20:13,211
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682
00:20:13,211 --> 00:20:13,485
Those are the clients I get who've
been doing that pattern for however

683
00:20:13,485 --> 00:20:13,499
many years, probably a whole lifetime.

684
00:20:13,499 --> 00:20:13,536
I mean, we usually go back to age, you
know, eight years old or four years old

685
00:20:13,536 --> 00:20:13,564
in our sessions because they're like,
that's when I figured out that giving

686
00:20:13,564 --> 00:20:13,599
myself to others was the way to get some
kind of validation or to get whatever,

687
00:20:13,599 --> 00:20:13,617
but they call it, it's filling my cup.

688
00:20:13,617 --> 00:20:13,626
It's filling my cup.

689
00:20:13,626 --> 00:20:13,639
And it does until it doesn't.

690
00:20:13,639 --> 00:20:15,313
Kathy Poss [20:12.386]

691
00:20:15,353 --> 00:20:19,243
clients I get who've been doing
that pattern for however many

692
00:20:19,253 --> 00:20:21,283
years, probably a whole lifetime.

693
00:20:21,333 --> 00:20:26,443
I mean, we usually go back to age, you
know, eight years old or four years old

694
00:20:26,483 --> 00:20:29,753
in our sessions because they're like,
that's when I figured out that giving

695
00:20:29,753 --> 00:20:34,503
myself to others was the way to get some
kind of validation or to get whatever,

696
00:20:34,813 --> 00:20:37,013
but they call it, it's filling my cup.

697
00:20:37,013 --> 00:20:37,903
It's filling my cup.

698
00:20:38,783 --> 00:20:40,593
And it does until it doesn't.

699
00:20:41,273 --> 00:20:41,787
Kathy Poss [20:12.386]

700
00:20:41,787 --> 00:20:41,791
Right.

701
00:20:41,791 --> 00:20:41,795
Right.

702
00:20:41,795 --> 00:20:41,799
Exactly.

703
00:20:41,799 --> 00:20:41,826
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704
00:20:41,826 --> 00:20:45,083
or their why is different
than they thought it was.

705
00:20:45,783 --> 00:20:55,813
So eventually they are in a state of
great pain and, you know, deflation.

706
00:20:55,833 --> 00:20:58,003
I don't know what you want
to call it, but it's a...

707
00:20:58,003 --> 00:20:58,280
Kathy Poss [20:30.904]

708
00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:58,557
Take advantage of,

709
00:20:58,603 --> 00:20:58,608
or their why is different
than they thought it was.

710
00:20:58,608 --> 00:20:58,615
So eventually they are in a state of
great pain and, you know, deflation.

711
00:20:58,615 --> 00:20:58,622
I don't know what you want
to call it, but it's a...

712
00:20:58,622 --> 00:20:58,627
Kathy Poss [20:30.904]

713
00:20:58,627 --> 00:21:02,633
Take advantage of, maybe a little
taken advantage of or resentful.

714
00:21:02,833 --> 00:21:03,253
Yeah.

715
00:21:03,293 --> 00:21:07,933
And the words out of their mouth
are, but it fills my cup to give

716
00:21:07,933 --> 00:21:09,703
and to do and to, all of this.

717
00:21:10,493 --> 00:21:16,383
And, and if that were really true,
it would be an energy exchange that

718
00:21:16,383 --> 00:21:18,733
felt equal and it felt fulfilling.

719
00:21:18,847 --> 00:21:19,809
of their mouth are,

720
00:21:19,853 --> 00:21:23,533
and sometimes it shows up as physical
illness sometimes in their body.

721
00:21:23,663 --> 00:21:27,683
And so when they're coming to
me as clients going, my gosh, I

722
00:21:27,683 --> 00:21:32,413
have like back issues really bad,
or I have, and I'm like, well,

723
00:21:32,556 --> 00:21:33,999
me as clients going, my gosh,

724
00:21:34,023 --> 00:21:39,083
You know, let's look at the energy or the
patterns of what you've been giving and

725
00:21:39,093 --> 00:21:44,423
giving and giving, but you're not actually
getting back what you thought you were or,

726
00:21:44,582 --> 00:21:45,063
or, or

727
00:21:45,323 --> 00:21:45,503
or

728
00:21:45,663 --> 00:21:45,668
aligned exactly.

729
00:21:45,668 --> 00:21:47,138
Kathy Poss [21:19.032]

730
00:21:47,243 --> 00:21:48,463
aligned exactly.

731
00:21:48,593 --> 00:21:49,187
Right, it wasn't aligned.

732
00:21:49,187 --> 00:21:49,360
Right, it wasn't aligned.

733
00:21:49,403 --> 00:21:54,013
I love the energy, so I love the
energy work and I love, you we all,

734
00:21:54,033 --> 00:21:55,803
like you talked about first, you know,

735
00:21:57,853 --> 00:22:01,953
we're all speaking the same
thing, all of us healers, all

736
00:22:01,953 --> 00:22:05,593
of us wellness professionals.

737
00:22:06,233 --> 00:22:09,553
They may, you know, we may
use different vocabulary

738
00:22:09,593 --> 00:22:10,392
Kathy Poss [21:19.032]

739
00:22:10,392 --> 00:22:10,640
Right,

740
00:22:10,673 --> 00:22:14,013
in different modalities, but
we are, you know, we all want.

741
00:22:14,013 --> 00:22:14,346
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742
00:22:14,346 --> 00:22:14,393
Mm-hmm.

743
00:22:14,393 --> 00:22:14,536
Kathy Poss [21:48.642]

744
00:22:14,583 --> 00:22:19,953
We're all speaking with
the same intention in mind.

745
00:22:20,573 --> 00:22:28,653
And I believe that, you know,
personal finance really is, it's

746
00:22:28,663 --> 00:22:34,733
really necessary in personal finance
because it really hasn't been there

747
00:22:34,740 --> 00:22:35,982
necessary in personal finance because

748
00:22:36,123 --> 00:22:36,983
for forever.

749
00:22:37,833 --> 00:22:45,364
You know, it's not something
we normally would talk about.

750
00:22:45,673 --> 00:22:50,073
like I've said, like, in previous
episodes, I've talked about, you know,

751
00:22:50,073 --> 00:22:55,373
the way that I kind of describe it as
like, if our bodies and brains were

752
00:22:55,423 --> 00:22:59,853
a computer, we've been downloading
systems since we were in the womb.

753
00:23:00,283 --> 00:23:00,673
Right.

754
00:23:00,683 --> 00:23:01,193
So

755
00:23:01,443 --> 00:23:05,133
When our neuro pathways start to be
developed, when we're a fetus, we

756
00:23:05,133 --> 00:23:09,693
start developing these connections on
how to get these chemical needs met.

757
00:23:10,273 --> 00:23:15,133
And so we've been developing
these for a long time.

758
00:23:15,373 --> 00:23:18,663
Doesn't mean they always are
correct or that they serve us.

759
00:23:19,363 --> 00:23:23,733
So that's usually where I come in
to help people later is to go, okay,

760
00:23:23,733 --> 00:23:25,683
something just isn't quite working right.

761
00:23:25,683 --> 00:23:25,943
Right?

762
00:23:25,963 --> 00:23:29,393
Like I thought this is how to get my
needs met and it's not getting my needs.

763
00:23:29,593 --> 00:23:29,599
a lot of this relates to like, like
I've said, like, in previous episodes,

764
00:23:29,599 --> 00:23:29,605
I've talked about, you know, the
way that I kind of describe it as

765
00:23:29,605 --> 00:23:29,612
like, if our bodies and brains were
a computer, we've been downloading

766
00:23:29,612 --> 00:23:29,625
systems since we were in the womb.

767
00:23:29,625 --> 00:23:29,783
Right.

768
00:23:29,783 --> 00:23:30,006
So

769
00:23:30,006 --> 00:23:31,567
When our neuro pathways start to be

770
00:23:31,703 --> 00:23:36,943
talked about how like that
relating to then belief systems,

771
00:23:37,333 --> 00:23:40,153
thoughts, leading to emotions.

772
00:23:40,503 --> 00:23:45,523
And I think your six habitudes
that you talk about, I want people

773
00:23:45,523 --> 00:23:50,383
to know that I am going to, she
sent me like a PDF of those.

774
00:23:50,463 --> 00:23:53,993
So I'm going to put those up on my blog
when I do the blog post for this episode.

775
00:23:53,993 --> 00:23:57,293
So if you are listening and
you're like, what are those?

776
00:23:57,323 --> 00:23:59,593
I want to know more about
that and you want to see them.

777
00:23:59,903 --> 00:24:03,065
go to my blog on my website, but
talk a little bit about those for us.

778
00:24:03,065 --> 00:24:03,067
Kathy Poss [23:39.254]

779
00:24:03,067 --> 00:24:03,075
Yeah, so in my journey, I have a
financial background and was a CPA.

780
00:24:03,075 --> 00:24:03,082
And so I was, you know, right
what I was talking about.

781
00:24:03,082 --> 00:24:03,091
I mean, I was a math person and you
save and you put money aside and

782
00:24:03,091 --> 00:24:03,096
you put it for a later date and.

783
00:24:03,096 --> 00:24:03,103
When I got into the field, I into
financial coaching was because of

784
00:24:03,103 --> 00:24:03,107
some significant changes in my life.

785
00:24:03,107 --> 00:24:03,116
And that's, you know, a lot of times,
you know, we're going to keep changing

786
00:24:03,116 --> 00:24:03,125
and evolving and big events in our
lives do do that to us or for us.

787
00:24:03,125 --> 00:24:03,134
should say they do it for us because they
are absolutely the best things that ever

788
00:24:03,134 --> 00:24:03,138
happened to me, even though they were.

789
00:24:03,138 --> 00:24:03,142
Ride The Wave Media
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790
00:24:03,142 --> 00:24:03,143
Yeah.

791
00:24:03,143 --> 00:24:03,145
Kathy Poss [24:34.122]

792
00:24:03,145 --> 00:24:03,153
not good things that happened to me, but
I really sank into this money behaviors.

793
00:24:03,153 --> 00:24:03,163
It was one of the first things that I
learned about and I became proficient in.

794
00:24:03,163 --> 00:24:03,170
And there's six different habitudes, which
is habits and attitudes towards money.

795
00:24:03,170 --> 00:24:03,174
They are planning and security,
spontaneous and carefree.

796
00:24:03,174 --> 00:24:03,176
giving and status.

797
00:24:03,176 --> 00:24:03,185
And right when I say all those,
I know a lot of people are like,

798
00:24:03,185 --> 00:24:03,192
ooh, that's me, that's definitely
not me, I would never be that way.

799
00:24:03,192 --> 00:24:03,198
And so we all have these
preconceived notions of what

800
00:24:03,198 --> 00:24:03,201
these, behaviors are towards money.

801
00:24:03,201 --> 00:24:03,209
And a lot can be tied back to our
childhood, like we just discussed.

802
00:24:03,209 --> 00:24:03,210
I had...

803
00:24:03,210 --> 00:24:03,214
Ride The Wave Media
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804
00:24:03,214 --> 00:24:03,215
You

805
00:24:03,215 --> 00:24:03,217
Kathy Poss [25:33.546]

806
00:24:03,217 --> 00:24:03,226
I have a mother who is extremely security
driven to the detriment of her health and

807
00:24:03,226 --> 00:24:03,230
a father that was extremely spontaneous.

808
00:24:03,230 --> 00:24:03,236
So they were complete opposites,
which a lot of times happens.

809
00:24:03,236 --> 00:24:03,242
And so I have a little bit of both in me.

810
00:24:03,242 --> 00:24:03,250
And when I sink into it, you know,
learning the balance between those two.

811
00:24:03,250 --> 00:24:03,255
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812
00:24:03,255 --> 00:24:03,255
Okay.

813
00:24:03,255 --> 00:24:03,257
Kathy Poss [26:01.9]

814
00:24:03,257 --> 00:24:03,263
was really important to me and
I really believed, you know,

815
00:24:03,263 --> 00:24:03,267
I'm not gonna change who I am.

816
00:24:03,267 --> 00:24:03,272
I'm not gonna change
those things about me.

817
00:24:03,272 --> 00:24:03,280
But knowing and being aware of them
and how I used to judge others.

818
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:03,284
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819
00:24:03,284 --> 00:24:03,285
Mmmhmm.

820
00:24:03,285 --> 00:24:03,287
Kathy Poss [26:20.086]

821
00:24:03,287 --> 00:24:03,294
you know, really affects that whole
idea of being in fear and being

822
00:24:03,294 --> 00:24:03,301
judgmental instead of being, everyone
has their own path, everyone has their

823
00:24:03,301 --> 00:24:03,311
own way and gifts in each of those
areas that we all can learn from.

824
00:24:03,311 --> 00:24:04,146
And so, yeah, I mean, it's really...

825
00:24:04,336 --> 00:24:05,450
blog post for this episode.

826
00:24:05,673 --> 00:24:06,175
So if you are listening and
you're like, what are those?

827
00:24:06,175 --> 00:24:06,320
I want to know more about
that and you want to see them.

828
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:06,499
go to my blog on my website, but
talk a little bit about those for us.

829
00:24:06,499 --> 00:24:06,532
Kathy Poss [23:39.254]

830
00:24:06,543 --> 00:24:08,363
Yeah, so in my journey,

831
00:24:08,782 --> 00:24:11,872
helps me tremendously in

832
00:24:11,883 --> 00:24:14,718
have a financial background and was a CPA.

833
00:24:14,753 --> 00:24:19,933
And so I was, you know, right
what I was talking about.

834
00:24:19,933 --> 00:24:25,003
I mean, I was a math person and you
save and you put money aside and

835
00:24:25,003 --> 00:24:28,503
you put it for a later date and.

836
00:24:28,870 --> 00:24:29,642
able

837
00:24:29,943 --> 00:24:36,363
When I got into the field, I into
financial coaching was because of

838
00:24:36,363 --> 00:24:39,473
some significant changes in my life.

839
00:24:39,553 --> 00:24:42,193
And that's, you know, a
lot of times, you know,

840
00:24:42,777 --> 00:24:43,550
of

841
00:24:43,603 --> 00:24:47,863
we're going to keep changing and
evolving and big events in our

842
00:24:47,863 --> 00:24:51,903
lives do do that to us or for us.

843
00:24:51,926 --> 00:24:52,069
The Wave Media Podcast Network [27:27.367]

844
00:24:52,093 --> 00:24:52,453
Yeah.

845
00:24:52,493 --> 00:24:57,433
should say they do it for us because they
are absolutely the best things that ever

846
00:24:57,433 --> 00:24:59,243
happened to me, even though they were.

847
00:24:59,243 --> 00:24:59,722
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [24:24.824]

848
00:24:59,722 --> 00:24:59,790
Yeah.

849
00:24:59,790 --> 00:24:59,995
Kathy Poss [24:34.122]

850
00:25:00,063 --> 00:25:05,733
not good things that happened to me, but
I really sank into this money behaviors.

851
00:25:05,743 --> 00:25:11,943
It was one of the first things that I
learned about and I became proficient in.

852
00:25:11,943 --> 00:25:18,613
And there's six different habitudes, which
is habits and attitudes towards money.

853
00:25:20,143 --> 00:25:28,823
They are planning and security,
spontaneous and carefree.

854
00:25:29,893 --> 00:25:31,143
giving and status.

855
00:25:32,383 --> 00:25:37,793
And right when I say all those,
I know a lot of people are like,

856
00:25:37,843 --> 00:25:43,113
ooh, that's me, that's definitely
not me, I would never be that way.

857
00:25:44,463 --> 00:25:49,973
And so we all have these
preconceived notions of what

858
00:25:49,973 --> 00:25:52,203
these, behaviors are towards money.

859
00:25:52,203 --> 00:25:57,183
And a lot can be tied back to our
childhood, like we just discussed.

860
00:25:57,263 --> 00:25:59,263
I had...

861
00:25:59,263 --> 00:25:59,386
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [25:11.087]

862
00:25:59,386 --> 00:25:59,403
You

863
00:25:59,403 --> 00:25:59,456
Kathy Poss [25:33.546]

864
00:25:59,473 --> 00:26:06,843
I have a mother who is extremely security
driven to the detriment of her health and

865
00:26:06,913 --> 00:26:10,333
a father that was extremely spontaneous.

866
00:26:11,723 --> 00:26:15,783
So they were complete opposites,
which a lot of times happens.

867
00:26:16,233 --> 00:26:19,433
And so I have a little bit of both in me.

868
00:26:20,083 --> 00:26:27,083
And when I sink into it, you know,
learning the balance between those two.

869
00:26:27,083 --> 00:26:27,492
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [25:44.574]

870
00:26:27,492 --> 00:26:27,550
Okay.

871
00:26:27,550 --> 00:26:27,725
Kathy Poss [26:01.9]

872
00:26:27,783 --> 00:26:31,403
was really important to me and
I really believed, you know,

873
00:26:31,913 --> 00:26:33,453
I'm not gonna change who I am.

874
00:26:33,983 --> 00:26:35,833
I'm not gonna change
those things about me.

875
00:26:36,133 --> 00:26:43,773
But knowing and being aware of them
and how I used to judge others.

876
00:26:44,953 --> 00:26:45,455
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [26:18.267]

877
00:26:45,455 --> 00:26:45,561
Mmmhmm.

878
00:26:45,561 --> 00:26:45,878
Kathy Poss [26:20.086]

879
00:26:45,983 --> 00:26:48,073
you know, really affects

880
00:26:50,073 --> 00:26:51,333
that whole

881
00:26:53,216 --> 00:27:17,368
Network

882
00:27:17,463 --> 00:27:26,833
first and foremost, it helps me
tremendously in getting through some

883
00:27:26,833 --> 00:27:35,243
of the hard stuff that I went through
and being able to make sense of it and

884
00:27:35,243 --> 00:27:41,663
to be able to honor who I was instead
of myself judging myself, you know,

885
00:27:41,673 --> 00:27:44,773
being ashamed, feeling a lot of shame.

886
00:27:44,773 --> 00:27:45,463
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [26:55.561]

887
00:27:45,463 --> 00:27:45,561
Mm-hmm.

888
00:27:45,561 --> 00:27:46,251
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [27:18.963]

889
00:27:46,251 --> 00:27:46,349
you

890
00:27:46,349 --> 00:27:46,645
Kathy Poss [27:20.82]

891
00:27:46,743 --> 00:27:51,863
And so I think it's a wonderful
tool to use here again.

892
00:27:51,933 --> 00:27:52,863
It's just a tool.

893
00:27:54,033 --> 00:28:00,993
There's a lot of conversations,
a lot of work to do in using

894
00:28:00,993 --> 00:28:02,773
any kind of tool as well.

895
00:28:02,773 --> 00:28:04,262
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [27:27.367]

896
00:28:04,262 --> 00:28:04,474
Yeah.

897
00:28:04,474 --> 00:28:05,537
Ride The Wave Media Podcast

898
00:28:05,673 --> 00:28:08,093
Just as you were saying this, it
just occurred to me, because I was

899
00:28:08,103 --> 00:28:12,163
looking at those six habitudes earlier
and I didn't even think about it.

900
00:28:12,173 --> 00:28:18,883
But when I teach people about those neural
pathways in their brain and like we're all

901
00:28:18,883 --> 00:28:22,633
trained to get a chemical need met, that's
how those neural pathways were created.

902
00:28:23,523 --> 00:28:27,993
And you said like security, well,
that's the dopamine element.

903
00:28:28,383 --> 00:28:30,523
Those chemical needs our
brain is trying to get.

904
00:28:30,523 --> 00:28:30,618
Kathy Poss [27:57.058]

905
00:28:30,618 --> 00:28:30,650
Right.

906
00:28:30,650 --> 00:28:30,872
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [28:04.889]

907
00:28:30,903 --> 00:28:35,513
If we feel secure, if we feel
safe, if we feel certainty, we're

908
00:28:35,513 --> 00:28:37,273
gonna get hits of dopamine, right?

909
00:28:39,603 --> 00:28:44,273
So it's just, I mean, even in, we're
talking about this relationship with

910
00:28:44,293 --> 00:28:52,593
money and finances, but this is so much
more aspects of our life that we look

911
00:28:52,593 --> 00:28:55,723
at and say, how do I interact with this?

912
00:28:56,153 --> 00:29:00,283
And if I am, like you said, I'm
going about it in a way that

913
00:29:00,283 --> 00:29:00,377
Kathy Poss [28:09.58]

914
00:29:00,377 --> 00:29:00,408
Right.

915
00:29:00,408 --> 00:29:00,439
Right.

916
00:29:00,439 --> 00:29:00,532
Kathy Poss [28:32.511]

917
00:29:00,532 --> 00:29:00,563
Bye.

918
00:29:00,563 --> 00:29:00,781
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [28:34.353]

919
00:29:00,781 --> 00:29:04,663
feels like maybe I'm getting
a drip of dopamine when I'm

920
00:29:04,663 --> 00:29:06,213
like, I can't spend any money.

921
00:29:06,213 --> 00:29:06,953
I gotta be safe.

922
00:29:06,953 --> 00:29:07,613
I gotta be secure.

923
00:29:07,613 --> 00:29:09,123
I won't spend a single dime.

924
00:29:09,123 --> 00:29:10,123
I'm gonna stay real safe.

925
00:29:10,563 --> 00:29:15,633
And then asking yourself, but
does that fulfill your needs?

926
00:29:15,643 --> 00:29:18,813
Does it actually fulfill your
needs or is it just kind of

927
00:29:18,813 --> 00:29:20,843
like a drip that you're getting?

928
00:29:20,981 --> 00:29:21,122
the...

929
00:29:21,122 --> 00:29:21,543
Kathy Poss [28:56.469]

930
00:29:21,543 --> 00:29:21,684
Yeah.

931
00:29:21,684 --> 00:29:22,105
Ride The Wave

932
00:29:22,213 --> 00:29:26,763
Your little addicted brain is getting
from those chemicals or like the...

933
00:29:26,763 --> 00:29:27,078
Kathy Poss [28:56.469]

934
00:29:27,183 --> 00:29:27,203
Yeah.

935
00:29:27,203 --> 00:29:27,731
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [29:01.819]

936
00:29:27,843 --> 00:29:30,703
Spontaneity is a great one for endorphins.

937
00:29:31,133 --> 00:29:37,373
I mean, you can see the correlation
with how we do life and again, releasing

938
00:29:37,373 --> 00:29:42,293
judgment on how people do it because
remember people do what they do

939
00:29:42,503 --> 00:29:44,043
because they don't know any other way.

940
00:29:44,663 --> 00:29:46,983
They're just trying to get
those chemical needs met.

941
00:29:47,753 --> 00:29:51,893
And at some point in their childhood,
probably before age eight, when their

942
00:29:51,893 --> 00:29:56,903
neuro pathways were brain was all
mapped, they had come up with this way.

943
00:29:56,903 --> 00:29:56,975
Kathy Poss [29:08.258]

944
00:29:56,975 --> 00:29:56,999
Yeah.

945
00:29:56,999 --> 00:29:57,047
that's cool.

946
00:29:57,047 --> 00:29:57,118
Kathy Poss [29:18.68]

947
00:29:57,118 --> 00:29:57,142
Right.

948
00:29:57,142 --> 00:29:57,309
Ride The Wave Media
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949
00:29:57,333 --> 00:30:00,713
And they're like, you so you talk
about your mom being more secure.

950
00:30:00,923 --> 00:30:03,933
She probably came up with those
patterns before she was eight years

951
00:30:03,933 --> 00:30:06,813
old and she's been living that way
because she's like, this is the

952
00:30:06,823 --> 00:30:08,903
only way I know how to feel good.

953
00:30:09,433 --> 00:30:09,434
Wave Media Podcast Network [29:31.333]

954
00:30:09,434 --> 00:30:09,437
And they're like, you so you talk
about your mom being more secure.

955
00:30:09,437 --> 00:30:09,439
She probably came up with those
patterns before she was eight years

956
00:30:09,439 --> 00:30:09,442
old and she's been living that way
because she's like, this is the

957
00:30:09,442 --> 00:30:09,444
only way I know how to feel good.

958
00:30:09,444 --> 00:30:09,447
And dad does it a completely different
way, but he's like, this is all I know.

959
00:30:09,447 --> 00:30:09,450
I know that this is
how I get my needs met.

960
00:30:09,450 --> 00:30:09,455
I feel great when I do it this way.

961
00:30:09,455 --> 00:30:09,462
And it works until it doesn't.

962
00:30:09,462 --> 00:30:09,470
Kathy Poss [29:43.64]

963
00:30:09,470 --> 00:30:09,873
Absolutely.

964
00:30:10,643 --> 00:30:14,793
And dad does it a completely different
way, but he's like, this is all I know.

965
00:30:15,083 --> 00:30:17,313
I know that this is
how I get my needs met.

966
00:30:17,403 --> 00:30:19,343
I feel great when I do it this way.

967
00:30:20,333 --> 00:30:21,255
And it works until it doesn't.

968
00:30:21,255 --> 00:30:21,292
Kathy Poss [29:43.64]

969
00:30:21,292 --> 00:30:21,304
Absolutely.

970
00:30:21,304 --> 00:30:21,316
Absolutely.

971
00:30:21,316 --> 00:30:21,353
Kathy Poss [29:49.122]

972
00:30:21,353 --> 00:30:21,365
Right.

973
00:30:21,365 --> 00:30:21,401
Kathy Poss [29:53.932]

974
00:30:21,413 --> 00:30:21,443
Right.

975
00:30:21,453 --> 00:30:26,373
Exactly, exactly.

976
00:30:26,763 --> 00:30:28,753
definitely works until it doesn't.

977
00:30:30,023 --> 00:30:37,723
yeah, I mean, for my mom, was,
you know, growing up in poverty

978
00:30:38,353 --> 00:30:41,713
and having the mindset that

979
00:30:42,646 --> 00:30:59,750
definitely works until

980
00:30:59,953 --> 00:31:00,963
kept moving.

981
00:31:01,653 --> 00:31:10,243
So while it was, like you just perfectly
said, it was serving her till it wasn't.

982
00:31:10,303 --> 00:31:14,533
And then now it is to the
detriment of her health, because it

983
00:31:14,683 --> 00:31:16,513
completely showed up in her health.

984
00:31:17,083 --> 00:31:17,452
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985
00:31:17,452 --> 00:31:17,524
Yeah.

986
00:31:17,524 --> 00:31:17,741
Kathy Poss [30:51.872]

987
00:31:17,813 --> 00:31:18,783
living that way.

988
00:31:18,783 --> 00:31:18,962
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989
00:31:18,962 --> 00:31:19,318
As it will, as those of us in the
wellness and healing world understand

990
00:31:19,318 --> 00:31:19,446
the correlation between the stress

991
00:31:19,453 --> 00:31:20,336
I mean, for my mom, was, you know,
growing up in poverty and having the

992
00:31:20,336 --> 00:31:20,337
mindset that there was never enough.

993
00:31:20,337 --> 00:31:20,337
So.

994
00:31:20,337 --> 00:31:20,338
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995
00:31:20,338 --> 00:31:20,338
Mm-hmm.

996
00:31:20,338 --> 00:31:20,339
Kathy Poss [30:22.716]

997
00:31:20,339 --> 00:31:20,341
even though it propelled her into a
very successful career earning enough

998
00:31:20,341 --> 00:31:20,342
money, it still was never enough.

999
00:31:20,342 --> 00:31:20,343
The goalpost kept moving.

1000
00:31:20,343 --> 00:31:20,346
So while it was, like you just perfectly
said, it was serving her till it wasn't.

1001
00:31:20,346 --> 00:31:20,348
And then now it is to the
detriment of her health, because it

1002
00:31:20,348 --> 00:31:20,350
completely showed up in her health.

1003
00:31:20,350 --> 00:31:20,353
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1004
00:31:20,353 --> 00:31:20,353
Yeah.

1005
00:31:20,353 --> 00:31:20,355
Kathy Poss [30:51.872]

1006
00:31:20,355 --> 00:31:20,357
living that way.

1007
00:31:20,357 --> 00:31:20,370
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1008
00:31:20,370 --> 00:31:24,843
As it will, as those of us in the
wellness and healing world understand

1009
00:31:24,843 --> 00:31:30,683
the correlation between the stress
we put on our bodies when the neural

1010
00:31:30,683 --> 00:31:33,103
pathways we have created are conflicting.

1011
00:31:33,193 --> 00:31:33,463
It's like,

1012
00:31:33,673 --> 00:31:33,677
Poss [31:07.736]

1013
00:31:33,677 --> 00:31:33,679
Great.

1014
00:31:33,679 --> 00:31:33,684
Kathy Poss [31:16.802]

1015
00:31:33,684 --> 00:31:33,686
Okay.

1016
00:31:33,686 --> 00:31:33,694
Kathy Poss [31:20.716]

1017
00:31:33,694 --> 00:31:34,133
Right.

1018
00:31:34,133 --> 00:31:34,151
Yep.

1019
00:31:34,151 --> 00:31:34,274
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1020
00:31:34,274 --> 00:31:34,503
You know, just out of curiosity, does
she happen to have back problems?

1021
00:31:34,503 --> 00:31:34,521
Kathy

1022
00:31:34,523 --> 00:31:37,353
get this need met, but also
don't get this need met.

1023
00:31:37,353 --> 00:31:41,913
So now these needs don't get met, and
then I'm stressed, and the stress in my

1024
00:31:41,913 --> 00:31:44,033
body creates these physical symptoms.

1025
00:31:44,623 --> 00:31:46,393
I mean, it's just all connected.

1026
00:31:46,393 --> 00:31:47,773
Kathy Poss [30:54.978]

1027
00:31:47,773 --> 00:31:47,801
Great.

1028
00:31:47,801 --> 00:31:47,828
No!

1029
00:31:47,828 --> 00:31:47,910
Kathy Poss [31:07.736]

1030
00:31:47,910 --> 00:31:47,938
Great.

1031
00:31:47,938 --> 00:31:48,020
Kathy Poss [31:16.802]

1032
00:31:48,020 --> 00:31:48,047
Okay.

1033
00:31:48,047 --> 00:31:48,129
Kathy Poss [31:20.716]

1034
00:31:48,129 --> 00:31:48,157
Right.

1035
00:31:48,157 --> 00:31:48,184
Yep.

1036
00:31:48,184 --> 00:31:48,376
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1037
00:31:48,403 --> 00:31:52,063
You know, just out of curiosity, does
she happen to have back problems?

1038
00:31:55,913 --> 00:31:56,106
Kathy Poss [31:27.222]

1039
00:31:56,106 --> 00:31:56,138
yes.

1040
00:31:56,138 --> 00:31:56,366
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1041
00:31:56,366 --> 00:32:01,243
I ask because I always want to highlight
that that is when I, when I meet someone,

1042
00:32:01,393 --> 00:32:07,493
especially, you know, someone older, it's,
they're like, my spine is deteriorated.

1043
00:32:07,703 --> 00:32:12,793
have, you know, vertebrae, I have, you
know, pelvic issues or lower spine issues.

1044
00:32:12,813 --> 00:32:16,293
I will ask, you know, did
you grow up in poverty?

1045
00:32:16,743 --> 00:32:21,843
Because it is connected to the
root chakra, our ability to feel

1046
00:32:21,843 --> 00:32:24,573
safe and secure, rooted, grounded.

1047
00:32:25,343 --> 00:32:31,223
like we have a you know our our feet on
the ground and it's interesting because

1048
00:32:31,663 --> 00:32:39,133
the it's also very closely related to
the sacral chakra which affects our

1049
00:32:39,133 --> 00:32:47,283
relationships with others so when people
and that's the color orange in my spell

1050
00:32:47,303 --> 00:32:51,343
that I mentioned earlier I put it in
an orange sometimes money spells will

1051
00:32:51,383 --> 00:32:51,434
Kathy Poss [32:15.786]

1052
00:32:51,434 --> 00:32:51,435
Ugh.

1053
00:32:51,435 --> 00:32:51,449
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1054
00:32:51,449 --> 00:32:55,653
correlate with the color orange
or the fruit orange because we're

1055
00:32:55,653 --> 00:32:57,683
helping to heal the sacral chakra.

1056
00:32:58,243 --> 00:33:02,043
And it's our creative center of our body.

1057
00:33:02,923 --> 00:33:08,063
But it can also, know, for us women,
it kind of results in issues with

1058
00:33:08,063 --> 00:33:13,543
our reproductive organs, you know,
people with endometriosis and things,

1059
00:33:13,623 --> 00:33:18,943
cysts and polyps in our ovaries
and uterus and things like that.

1060
00:33:18,953 --> 00:33:20,963
So for men it could be

1061
00:33:21,293 --> 00:33:25,773
the prostate and things like that
that they end up having issues with.

1062
00:33:25,893 --> 00:33:29,403
So I'm pointing that out for
people that may be like, huh,

1063
00:33:30,253 --> 00:33:31,803
that's something too, you know.

1064
00:33:32,913 --> 00:33:34,723
But you did mention like
growing up in poverty.

1065
00:33:34,723 --> 00:33:38,153
So we both have a little bit
of experience in that realm.

1066
00:33:38,183 --> 00:33:47,903
And I truly believe that more so than
teaching people, children, whoever.

1067
00:33:48,903 --> 00:33:49,265
Kathy Poss [32:57.954]

1068
00:33:49,265 --> 00:33:49,267
Really.

1069
00:33:49,267 --> 00:33:49,284
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1070
00:33:49,284 --> 00:33:54,343
the sort of spreadsheets and budgeting
and although I think that's all very

1071
00:33:54,343 --> 00:33:58,343
important, I'm not saying we shouldn't
teach high school kids how to do

1072
00:33:58,343 --> 00:34:04,553
those kinds of things to go out into
the world and be adults, but I truly

1073
00:34:04,553 --> 00:34:09,233
believe, so I used to be a teacher in
elementary school and we were in an

1074
00:34:09,243 --> 00:34:12,873
area of very low income demographic.

1075
00:34:12,873 --> 00:34:16,763
We were a title one school
with 100 % free and reduced

1076
00:34:17,193 --> 00:34:20,003
are free lunches and breakfast
for all the children.

1077
00:34:20,953 --> 00:34:26,393
And for those of you who speak education
language, that's a very low income area.

1078
00:34:26,393 --> 00:34:26,423
This

1079
00:34:28,763 --> 00:34:29,723
is in Phoenix.

1080
00:34:29,763 --> 00:34:34,263
And I learned a lot from
being a teacher there.

1081
00:34:34,743 --> 00:34:39,443
We as teachers, we had to kind
of learn to speak the language.

1082
00:34:39,563 --> 00:34:43,843
And those of us who didn't grow up, I
mean, we were very privileged even though

1083
00:34:43,843 --> 00:34:45,403
teachers don't make a whole lot of money.

1084
00:34:45,403 --> 00:34:45,536
Kathy Poss [33:54.466]

1085
00:34:45,536 --> 00:34:45,581
Right.

1086
00:34:45,581 --> 00:34:45,714
Kathy Poss [34:01.473]

1087
00:34:45,714 --> 00:34:45,758
Right.

1088
00:34:45,758 --> 00:34:46,069
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1089
00:34:46,113 --> 00:34:51,963
We were still very privileged people
and we didn't necessarily understand

1090
00:34:51,963 --> 00:34:57,073
or could relate to people who were
growing up in generational poverty.

1091
00:34:57,563 --> 00:34:59,983
So we some deep dives and studies.

1092
00:35:00,183 --> 00:35:07,243
We read as a group, as a staff,
read the language of poverty and did

1093
00:35:07,243 --> 00:35:08,903
like a book study on it together.

1094
00:35:09,863 --> 00:35:11,113
Learned a lot about that.

1095
00:35:11,723 --> 00:35:15,073
But it was interesting because
although we learned a lot about

1096
00:35:15,073 --> 00:35:15,317
Kathy Poss [34:31.746]

1097
00:35:15,317 --> 00:35:15,398
Right.

1098
00:35:15,398 --> 00:35:15,642
Kathy Poss [34:45.794]

1099
00:35:15,642 --> 00:35:15,723
Right.

1100
00:35:15,723 --> 00:35:16,292
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1101
00:35:16,373 --> 00:35:22,643
that world, what that meant for people,
what it was like to teach students

1102
00:35:22,643 --> 00:35:27,043
who were coming to school, you know,
probably didn't sleep, probably

1103
00:35:27,043 --> 00:35:30,973
didn't eat, probably didn't know
who was picking them up from school.

1104
00:35:31,003 --> 00:35:32,193
I mean, these kinds of things.

1105
00:35:33,683 --> 00:35:37,523
It helped in that aspect, but we
talked a lot about what do we do?

1106
00:35:37,843 --> 00:35:45,233
How do we help these children break
those patterns or break from that

1107
00:35:46,033 --> 00:35:49,233
chain and help them be successful.

1108
00:35:49,923 --> 00:35:53,163
Because you hear about rare stories
where students who came from those

1109
00:35:53,163 --> 00:35:58,893
backgrounds would, you know, be so
determined and so ambitious and want to

1110
00:35:58,893 --> 00:36:02,873
learn that they were like, I'm graduating
high school, I'm going to college,

1111
00:36:02,923 --> 00:36:04,333
I'm doing this and I'm doing that.

1112
00:36:04,333 --> 00:36:09,663
But we didn't know as teachers how
to create that, how to inspire that.

1113
00:36:10,143 --> 00:36:12,433
And it wasn't until
after I finished teaching

1114
00:36:12,433 --> 00:36:12,528
Kathy Poss [35:42.262]

1115
00:36:12,528 --> 00:36:12,560
Right.

1116
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:12,782
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1117
00:36:12,813 --> 00:36:16,393
that I started learning about this
work that I do now and realize,

1118
00:36:16,943 --> 00:36:19,978
think, don't know what that is.

1119
00:36:20,633 --> 00:36:22,233
Our video just like had a moment.

1120
00:36:22,503 --> 00:36:28,543
Anyway, I realized that what I
think that the missing bridge was

1121
00:36:28,543 --> 00:36:36,333
for those students was not, you
know, their IQ, their academics.

1122
00:36:37,193 --> 00:36:39,013
I believe it's emotional intelligence.

1123
00:36:39,273 --> 00:36:41,293
It's EQ more than anything.

1124
00:36:41,883 --> 00:36:45,173
And so you kind of talked about that
because you were talking about like

1125
00:36:45,753 --> 00:36:54,593
learning these habitudes about money
would probably create success among

1126
00:36:54,593 --> 00:37:01,153
students rising out of poverty more
so than their academics, their grades.

1127
00:37:01,683 --> 00:37:02,703
At least that's what I believe.

1128
00:37:03,273 --> 00:37:04,743
What do you think about
that and your experience?

1129
00:37:04,743 --> 00:37:04,803
Kathy

1130
00:37:05,193 --> 00:37:07,063
I absolutely do.

1131
00:37:08,883 --> 00:37:18,143
And I think it helps with
the stigma of shame judgment.

1132
00:37:18,143 --> 00:37:18,153
I

1133
00:37:21,113 --> 00:38:32,303
Poss [36:15.96]

1134
00:38:32,303 --> 00:38:32,304
.
Kathy Poss [36:38.624]

1135
00:38:32,304 --> 00:38:32,305
Yeah, I absolutely do.

1136
00:38:32,305 --> 00:38:32,308
And I think it helps with
the stigma of shame judgment.

1137
00:38:32,308 --> 00:38:32,315
I think if I work for a volunteer
organization and do coaching through them,

1138
00:38:32,315 --> 00:38:32,328
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1139
00:38:32,328 --> 00:38:32,333
Mm-hmm.

1140
00:38:32,333 --> 00:38:32,856
Kathy

1141
00:38:32,943 --> 00:38:39,223
so when it's a safe place that
isn't judgmental but is really,

1142
00:38:39,656 --> 00:38:40,179
scale.

1143
00:38:40,179 --> 00:38:41,748
A lot of

1144
00:38:41,913 --> 00:38:46,633
you know, supporting the skills
they do have, these, my goodness,

1145
00:38:46,653 --> 00:38:47,963
they have so many skills.

1146
00:38:48,823 --> 00:38:50,913
I mean, they can teach us all, I mean,

1147
00:38:51,163 --> 00:38:53,778
been around in terms of

1148
00:38:53,933 --> 00:38:55,203
know how to get by.

1149
00:38:55,347 --> 00:38:56,393
and really

1150
00:38:56,643 --> 00:39:00,693
It's incredible what they've
done and have probably never

1151
00:39:01,101 --> 00:39:01,624
for

1152
00:39:01,713 --> 00:39:01,861
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1153
00:39:01,861 --> 00:39:01,879
Mm.

1154
00:39:01,879 --> 00:39:01,998
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1155
00:39:01,998 --> 00:39:02,015
yeah.

1156
00:39:02,015 --> 00:39:02,066
Kathy Poss [38:35.956]

1157
00:39:02,083 --> 00:39:07,443
have given a lot of positive feedback
in what they've already accomplished.

1158
00:39:07,900 --> 00:39:08,423
common

1159
00:39:08,573 --> 00:39:11,483
Always look back, always look
back and celebrate your wins.

1160
00:39:11,663 --> 00:39:11,673
I

1161
00:39:12,085 --> 00:39:13,131
understanding that

1162
00:39:13,203 --> 00:39:13,883
always say.

1163
00:39:14,177 --> 00:39:14,700
do

1164
00:39:15,103 --> 00:39:19,053
I think that's, yeah, I think
that's really key is really

1165
00:39:19,407 --> 00:39:24,638
single client I've had
has said thank you so much

1166
00:39:24,823 --> 00:39:27,763
our past, but not living in our past.

1167
00:39:27,776 --> 00:39:29,345
Podcast Network [37:57.849]

1168
00:39:29,673 --> 00:39:33,503
understanding who you are
so you don't feel shame

1169
00:39:33,529 --> 00:39:34,575
when it's

1170
00:39:34,753 --> 00:39:42,963
from where how you are and how you show
up and and then surrounding yourself by

1171
00:39:42,993 --> 00:39:48,253
good educators you were good I mean you
were right doing your thing you were

1172
00:39:48,263 --> 00:39:54,103
helping them just by being there and
being in listening and being a role model

1173
00:39:54,451 --> 00:39:54,974
get

1174
00:39:55,143 --> 00:39:58,113
you know seeing seeing other

1175
00:39:58,983 --> 00:40:02,713
people succeed and helping them

1176
00:40:02,820 --> 00:40:03,866
Network [38:06.072]

1177
00:40:03,883 --> 00:40:05,563
feel good about themselves.

1178
00:40:05,573 --> 00:40:05,583
I

1179
00:40:05,958 --> 00:40:07,004
Media Podcast

1180
00:40:07,273 --> 00:40:08,193
that's huge.

1181
00:40:08,573 --> 00:40:09,083
yeah.

1182
00:40:09,273 --> 00:40:14,683
When we can live in, like, you we
keep going back to, you know, the

1183
00:40:14,693 --> 00:40:23,813
joy and, you know, they take what
they've already learned and apply it

1184
00:40:26,063 --> 00:40:27,723
with support in...

1185
00:40:27,733 --> 00:40:27,849
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1186
00:40:27,849 --> 00:40:27,858
Yeah.

1187
00:40:27,858 --> 00:40:27,884
Kathy Poss [40:01.984]

1188
00:40:27,893 --> 00:40:30,323
Yeah, that's tremendous.

1189
00:40:30,983 --> 00:40:37,013
So I applaud you for working and
being an educator in that situation.

1190
00:40:37,273 --> 00:40:41,283
It's not easy and you don't feel
like you're doing enough and you

1191
00:40:41,283 --> 00:40:45,783
don't know sometimes where to
go and you're like, can I help?

1192
00:40:45,813 --> 00:40:48,573
Am I really doing, making an impact?

1193
00:40:49,343 --> 00:40:52,689
But you are and you did, I guarantee you.

1194
00:40:52,689 --> 00:40:52,798
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1195
00:40:52,813 --> 00:40:53,023
Yeah.

1196
00:40:53,023 --> 00:40:53,345
Yeah.

1197
00:40:53,345 --> 00:40:53,990
I was

1198
00:40:53,993 --> 00:40:54,063
Yeah.

1199
00:40:54,063 --> 00:40:54,093
Kathy Poss [40:01.984]

1200
00:40:54,093 --> 00:40:54,122
Yeah, that's tremendous.

1201
00:40:54,122 --> 00:40:54,251
So I applaud you for working and
being an educator in that situation.

1202
00:40:54,251 --> 00:40:54,379
It's not easy and you don't feel
like you're doing enough and you

1203
00:40:54,379 --> 00:40:54,497
don't know sometimes where to
go and you're like, can I help?

1204
00:40:54,497 --> 00:40:54,566
Am I really doing, making an impact?

1205
00:40:54,566 --> 00:40:54,655
But you are and you did, I guarantee you.

1206
00:40:54,655 --> 00:40:54,724
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1207
00:40:54,724 --> 00:40:54,734
Yeah.

1208
00:40:54,734 --> 00:40:54,743
Yeah.

1209
00:40:54,753 --> 00:40:59,443
I was young then and I do believe that
the work that we put into it and just

1210
00:41:00,153 --> 00:41:04,343
even doing that book study together
and being like, we wanna relate with

1211
00:41:04,343 --> 00:41:08,883
these children in these families and
be able to relate to them in a way

1212
00:41:08,883 --> 00:41:12,003
that doesn't make them feel shame and
doesn't make them feel judged, right?

1213
00:41:12,123 --> 00:41:15,303
Like, because a lot of us kind of
felt like, and I knew one of the

1214
00:41:15,303 --> 00:41:20,403
teachers I was teaching with, she
reminded me of the teacher in...

1215
00:41:20,426 --> 00:41:21,242
that that movie was based on.

1216
00:41:21,242 --> 00:41:21,514
I heard

1217
00:41:21,523 --> 00:41:25,363
Freedom Riders where she
goes into that high school.

1218
00:41:25,383 --> 00:41:29,753
I mean, it's like rough area for first
day of teaching and she's wearing pearls.

1219
00:41:29,811 --> 00:41:29,947
[ 41:04.162]

1220
00:41:30,083 --> 00:41:30,453
Right.

1221
00:41:30,453 --> 00:41:30,681
Kathy Poss [41:15.896]

1222
00:41:30,681 --> 00:41:30,757
Yeah.

1223
00:41:30,757 --> 00:41:31,061
Ride The Wave Media

1224
00:41:31,133 --> 00:41:34,553
I heard the actual teacher
that that movie was based on.

1225
00:41:34,553 --> 00:41:37,313
I heard her speak at one of the
teacher conferences and she was

1226
00:41:37,313 --> 00:41:40,513
like, I actually did walk in there
the first day wearing pearls.

1227
00:41:40,513 --> 00:41:41,573
It was a huge mistake.

1228
00:41:41,615 --> 00:41:41,767
So much.

1229
00:41:41,843 --> 00:41:42,173
Yes.

1230
00:41:42,173 --> 00:41:43,963
Kathy

1231
00:41:44,433 --> 00:41:48,883
and the kids felt, you know,
obviously judged or felt like, look

1232
00:41:48,883 --> 00:41:51,363
at you coming in here with your
pearls on, you know, who are you?

1233
00:41:51,363 --> 00:41:51,395
Kathy Poss [41:04.162]

1234
00:41:51,395 --> 00:41:51,406
Right.

1235
00:41:51,406 --> 00:41:51,438
Kathy Poss [41:15.896]

1236
00:41:51,438 --> 00:41:51,448
Yeah.

1237
00:41:51,448 --> 00:41:51,523
Ride The Wave Media
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1238
00:41:51,533 --> 00:41:52,483
to teach us and

1239
00:41:54,643 --> 00:41:57,303
it's kind of a culture shock
because it is a culture.

1240
00:41:57,303 --> 00:42:01,753
mean, like you have to go in there
and I just wish I would have known

1241
00:42:01,753 --> 00:42:03,093
some of the things I know now.

1242
00:42:03,123 --> 00:42:08,313
I mean, now I know that on the scale of
energy level, shame is at the very bottom.

1243
00:42:09,153 --> 00:42:13,203
And if you're carrying around shame in
any aspect, whether it's about money or

1244
00:42:13,203 --> 00:42:20,333
your financial status or that kind of
thing or about something else, but it's

1245
00:42:20,333 --> 00:42:20,444
Kathy Poss [41:42.808]

1246
00:42:20,444 --> 00:42:20,481
Alright.

1247
00:42:20,481 --> 00:42:20,739
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1248
00:42:20,739 --> 00:42:24,143
It's going to vibrate in your body at
the very, it's going to pull all of

1249
00:42:24,143 --> 00:42:32,233
your down and how can you rise to meet
with what you're looking to accomplish

1250
00:42:32,233 --> 00:42:34,193
or what you're looking to manifest.

1251
00:42:34,223 --> 00:42:34,713
So.

1252
00:42:34,713 --> 00:42:35,075
Kathy Poss [41:58.858]

1253
00:42:35,173 --> 00:42:37,563
right, right, yep.

1254
00:42:37,563 --> 00:42:37,953
Ride

1255
00:42:38,113 --> 00:42:42,873
well, I would love to get involved if
you, you know, if you see any use for

1256
00:42:42,873 --> 00:42:46,563
an energy healer and the work that you
do, or you happen to meet upon a person

1257
00:42:46,563 --> 00:42:51,913
who you're like, Hey, maybe you could
benefit from meeting my friend Courtney.

1258
00:42:51,913 --> 00:42:53,383
Kathy Poss

1259
00:42:53,743 --> 00:42:53,801
I well, I would love to get involved if
you, you know, if you see any use for

1260
00:42:53,801 --> 00:42:53,856
an energy healer and the work that you
do, or you happen to meet upon a person

1261
00:42:53,856 --> 00:42:53,898
who you're like, Hey, maybe you could
benefit from meeting my friend Courtney.

1262
00:42:53,898 --> 00:42:53,907
Kathy Poss [42:13.826]

1263
00:42:53,907 --> 00:42:53,910
Thanks.

1264
00:42:53,910 --> 00:42:53,920
Kathy Poss [42:26.552]

1265
00:42:53,923 --> 00:42:55,148
Absolutely, absolutely.

1266
00:42:55,293 --> 00:43:03,033
just, think it's so important, the work
that you do, and everyone in the wellness

1267
00:43:03,863 --> 00:43:09,423
arena, because yeah, I mean, I really, you
know, subscribe to the Wheel of Wellness.

1268
00:43:09,443 --> 00:43:15,803
I mean, it is, we're all working
on a holistic approach, and you

1269
00:43:15,803 --> 00:43:19,393
know, not in isolation, because
we know, I mean, we don't,

1270
00:43:19,943 --> 00:43:22,303
We don't work in isolation.

1271
00:43:22,303 --> 00:43:22,323
So

1272
00:43:23,603 --> 00:43:23,677
Thanks.

1273
00:43:23,677 --> 00:43:23,899
Kathy Poss [42:26.552]

1274
00:43:23,899 --> 00:43:24,046
Absolutely, absolutely.

1275
00:43:24,046 --> 00:43:24,489
just, think it's so important, the

1276
00:43:24,543 --> 00:43:25,233
we need

1277
00:43:25,302 --> 00:43:26,731
yeah, I mean, I really,
you know, subscribe to the

1278
00:43:26,853 --> 00:43:29,553
to come together in a holistic approach

1279
00:43:29,628 --> 00:43:30,456
we know, I mean, we don't,

1280
00:43:30,456 --> 00:43:30,594
We

1281
00:43:30,693 --> 00:43:33,193
to all these different
aspects of our lives.

1282
00:43:33,193 --> 00:44:22,361
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1283
00:44:22,361 --> 00:44:22,363
Very true.

1284
00:44:22,363 --> 00:44:22,573
Well, I do have a couple of money

1285
00:44:22,753 --> 00:44:24,763
deserve money or I don't deserve success.

1286
00:44:25,313 --> 00:44:30,573
So take two weeks to write in your
journal every single day, either in

1287
00:44:30,573 --> 00:44:33,633
the morning when you first wake up or
right before you go to sleep at night.

1288
00:44:34,073 --> 00:44:34,115
Kathy Poss [43:56.234]

1289
00:44:34,115 --> 00:44:34,117
Love you.

1290
00:44:34,117 --> 00:44:34,130
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [44:08.082]

1291
00:44:34,130 --> 00:44:36,143
And you just write one sentence like,

1292
00:44:36,264 --> 00:44:37,669
witchy side of things

1293
00:44:37,853 --> 00:44:40,203
have success and money coming my way,

1294
00:44:40,477 --> 00:44:41,530
money in their

1295
00:44:41,563 --> 00:44:43,953
however you want to word
that as a statement.

1296
00:44:43,987 --> 00:44:45,041
an affirmation of

1297
00:44:45,173 --> 00:44:47,683
Make sure that it's a statement,
like an affirmation, it's

1298
00:44:47,693 --> 00:44:50,913
already true, I already know it.

1299
00:44:51,543 --> 00:44:55,143
But you write it with your non-dominant
hand for two weeks every day.

1300
00:44:56,073 --> 00:44:58,073
Best if you can write it three times each.

1301
00:44:58,073 --> 00:44:58,421
Kathy Poss [44:25.218]

1302
00:44:58,421 --> 00:44:58,537
Mm-hmm.

1303
00:44:58,653 --> 00:44:59,093
Ride The Wave Media
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1304
00:44:59,183 --> 00:45:04,028
But I have done that one and I actually
manifested, I wrote, I will have $2,000

1305
00:45:04,349 --> 00:45:05,051
day, either

1306
00:45:05,083 --> 00:45:06,993
by the end of two weeks
or something like that.

1307
00:45:06,993 --> 00:45:08,883
And I wrote it every day

1308
00:45:08,912 --> 00:45:09,965
you go to

1309
00:45:10,283 --> 00:45:11,243
and it totally worked.

1310
00:45:11,273 --> 00:45:13,383
My husband came home after two weeks.

1311
00:45:13,393 --> 00:45:15,533
He didn't know I was doing this,
but he came home and he goes,

1312
00:45:16,033 --> 00:45:18,843
I just bonused at work $2,000.

1313
00:45:18,843 --> 00:45:19,263
I was like.

1314
00:45:19,263 --> 00:45:19,403
Kathy

1315
00:45:19,444 --> 00:45:21,550
my way, however you want to

1316
00:45:21,643 --> 00:45:21,903
You're welcome.

1317
00:45:21,903 --> 00:45:22,023
Kathy Poss [44:56.002]

1318
00:45:22,063 --> 00:45:22,193
Thank

1319
00:45:22,603 --> 00:45:22,623
as a statement.

1320
00:45:22,623 --> 00:45:22,624
Make sure that it's a statement,
like an affirmation, it's

1321
00:45:22,624 --> 00:45:22,625
already true, I already know it.

1322
00:45:22,625 --> 00:45:22,625
But you write it with your non-dominant
hand for two weeks every day.

1323
00:45:22,625 --> 00:45:22,626
Best if you can write it three times each.

1324
00:45:22,626 --> 00:45:22,626
Kathy Poss [44:25.218]

1325
00:45:22,626 --> 00:45:22,626
Mm-hmm.

1326
00:45:22,626 --> 00:45:22,627
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [44:33.108]

1327
00:45:22,627 --> 00:45:22,628
But I have done that one and I
actually manifested, I wrote, I

1328
00:45:22,628 --> 00:45:22,629
will have $2,000 by the end of
two weeks or something like that.

1329
00:45:22,629 --> 00:45:22,631
And I wrote it every day
and it totally worked.

1330
00:45:22,631 --> 00:45:22,632
My husband came home after two weeks.

1331
00:45:22,632 --> 00:45:22,634
He didn't know I was doing this,
but he came home and he goes,

1332
00:45:22,634 --> 00:45:22,635
I just bonused at work $2,000.

1333
00:45:22,635 --> 00:45:22,636
I was like.

1334
00:45:22,636 --> 00:45:22,637
Kathy Poss [44:41.24]

1335
00:45:22,637 --> 00:45:22,638
Thank you.

1336
00:45:22,638 --> 00:45:22,638
Kathy Poss [44:49.303]

1337
00:45:22,638 --> 00:45:22,639
you

1338
00:45:22,639 --> 00:45:22,643
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [44:55.624]

1339
00:45:22,643 --> 00:45:22,645
You're welcome.

1340
00:45:22,645 --> 00:45:22,648
Kathy Poss [44:56.002]

1341
00:45:22,648 --> 00:45:22,933
Thank you very much.

1342
00:45:24,113 --> 00:45:24,517
you very much.

1343
00:45:24,517 --> 00:45:25,368
It was all

1344
00:45:25,493 --> 00:45:26,463
It was all me.

1345
00:45:26,463 --> 00:45:36,294
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [45:01.874]

1346
00:45:36,294 --> 00:45:36,296
Yeah, I mean, I'm sure he worked really
hard for that book as well, so we can

1347
00:45:36,296 --> 00:45:36,296
give him the credit for that part.

1348
00:45:36,296 --> 00:45:36,297
But yeah.

1349
00:45:36,297 --> 00:45:36,298
So anyway, that's just one
of many that I like to do.

1350
00:45:36,298 --> 00:45:36,299
But there are a lot of
different kind of cool herbs and

1351
00:45:36,299 --> 00:45:36,300
elements that you can add into.

1352
00:45:36,300 --> 00:45:36,301
Obviously, I mentioned the orange,
the green candle, because green is

1353
00:45:36,301 --> 00:45:36,302
often associated with money being
greenbacks, know, dollar bills.

1354
00:45:36,302 --> 00:45:36,302
Kathy Poss [45:03.8]

1355
00:45:36,302 --> 00:45:36,302
Thanks

1356
00:45:36,302 --> 00:45:36,303
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [45:30.898]

1357
00:45:36,303 --> 00:45:36,305
If you want to incorporate colors into
your spell, I never teach people that

1358
00:45:36,305 --> 00:45:36,306
there is a specific or certain way to
do a spell or a prayer or manifesting

1359
00:45:36,306 --> 00:45:36,307
what is asking for what it is you want.

1360
00:45:36,307 --> 00:45:36,309
The most important thing I think is
that people believe in it and believe

1361
00:45:36,309 --> 00:45:36,312
because you have to have the will and
believe that you deserve to have it.

1362
00:45:36,312 --> 00:45:36,315
And that that's really
the most important part.

1363
00:45:36,315 --> 00:45:36,315
So.

1364
00:45:36,315 --> 00:45:36,322
I think whatever symbols and
whatever things you want to put

1365
00:45:36,322 --> 00:45:36,334
into your own spell, it's totally

1366
00:45:36,373 --> 00:45:40,083
anyway, that's just one
of many that I like to do.

1367
00:45:40,463 --> 00:45:44,013
But there are a lot of
different kind of cool herbs and

1368
00:45:44,551 --> 00:45:45,218
or

1369
00:45:45,383 --> 00:45:47,133
elements that you can add into.

1370
00:45:47,163 --> 00:45:50,633
Obviously, I mentioned the orange,
the green candle, because green is

1371
00:45:50,633 --> 00:45:56,483
often associated with money being
greenbacks, know, dollar bills.

1372
00:45:56,903 --> 00:45:56,971
Kathy Poss [45:03.8]

1373
00:45:56,971 --> 00:45:56,980
Thanks

1374
00:45:56,980 --> 00:45:57,037
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [45:30.898]

1375
00:45:57,037 --> 00:46:04,463
If you want to incorporate colors into
your spell, I never teach people that

1376
00:46:04,473 --> 00:46:09,793
there is a specific or certain way to
do a spell or a prayer or manifesting

1377
00:46:09,793 --> 00:46:12,323
what is asking for what it is you want.

1378
00:46:13,303 --> 00:46:17,803
The most important thing I think is
that people believe in it and believe

1379
00:46:17,903 --> 00:46:21,993
because you have to have the will and
believe that you deserve to have it.

1380
00:46:22,343 --> 00:46:24,623
And that that's really
the most important part.

1381
00:46:24,703 --> 00:46:25,213
So.

1382
00:46:25,693 --> 00:46:30,503
I think whatever symbols and whatever
things you want to put into your

1383
00:46:30,503 --> 00:46:32,743
own spell, it's totally up to you.

1384
00:46:32,763 --> 00:46:39,273
If it's specific to you, like a memory you
have or a specific connection, personal

1385
00:46:39,273 --> 00:46:43,453
connection you have to something, then add
it into your spell and it'll work for you.

1386
00:46:44,103 --> 00:46:48,933
So I will post some of those and some
ideas there on my blog for people who

1387
00:46:48,933 --> 00:46:51,803
want to look those up and get some ideas.

1388
00:46:51,863 --> 00:46:54,253
And hopefully that will be
helpful for all of you listening.

1389
00:46:54,883 --> 00:46:56,553
who want to manifest money.

1390
00:46:56,813 --> 00:46:57,013
if they do

1391
00:46:57,289 --> 00:46:57,956
[ 46:31.02]

1392
00:46:58,623 --> 00:46:59,483
I'm on it.

1393
00:46:59,653 --> 00:47:04,033
want to do spells, if that's not your
thing, or even if you do want to do

1394
00:47:04,033 --> 00:47:09,113
spells, but you also want to go a more
practical route, Kathy, tell us where they

1395
00:47:09,113 --> 00:47:12,060
can find you for your coaching and help.

1396
00:47:12,060 --> 00:47:12,892
Kathy Poss

1397
00:47:13,053 --> 00:47:14,103
Yeah, have,

1398
00:47:14,141 --> 00:47:14,557
it.

1399
00:47:14,557 --> 00:47:15,390
I'm on

1400
00:47:15,443 --> 00:47:19,843
right now I'm doing a 30 day
financial wellness bootcamp.

1401
00:47:20,523 --> 00:47:27,593
And in my program, very, I
don't take on a lot of clients

1402
00:47:27,703 --> 00:47:30,143
because it really is a bootcamp.

1403
00:47:30,163 --> 00:47:37,423
And I really believe in coaching isn't
just a one-off kind of situation, but we

1404
00:47:37,423 --> 00:47:39,713
need accountability and we need to really,

1405
00:47:39,953 --> 00:47:40,785
to really,

1406
00:47:40,785 --> 00:47:41,618
have that

1407
00:47:41,733 --> 00:47:44,463
have that connection,
vulnerability, and trust.

1408
00:47:44,523 --> 00:47:45,313
And so

1409
00:47:45,365 --> 00:47:46,197
going on

1410
00:47:46,353 --> 00:47:48,193
I have that going on right now.

1411
00:47:48,493 --> 00:47:54,253
You can find me at, my email
is Kathy, with a K and a Y,

1412
00:47:54,524 --> 00:47:55,356
then my

1413
00:47:55,593 --> 00:47:57,823
at Kathy, and then my last name,

1414
00:47:57,854 --> 00:47:59,103
well as my

1415
00:47:59,493 --> 00:48:05,903
POS, dot com, as well as my
website, Solo Women and Wealth.

1416
00:48:06,883 --> 00:48:08,343
I'm also on LinkedIn.

1417
00:48:08,873 --> 00:48:13,163
and eventually I'll be on
Instagram and other things but

1418
00:48:13,258 --> 00:48:13,674
[ 47:45.896]

1419
00:48:13,674 --> 00:48:15,733
.
If you want to.

1420
00:48:15,743 --> 00:48:16,453
you know

1421
00:48:16,503 --> 00:48:17,285
Ride The Wave Media

1422
00:48:17,673 --> 00:48:19,683
I'm a slow mover in that direction.

1423
00:48:20,093 --> 00:48:20,953
That's all right.

1424
00:48:21,543 --> 00:48:23,653
Once you start, it's a whole other thing.

1425
00:48:23,653 --> 00:48:27,053
So I'm like, you got to keep
it up and it's a whole thing.

1426
00:48:27,663 --> 00:48:29,203
So I think it's great.

1427
00:48:29,293 --> 00:48:32,643
And I will post links to
those on my blog as well.

1428
00:48:32,643 --> 00:48:36,103
So for those of you listening and
you're driving your car and you're

1429
00:48:36,103 --> 00:48:37,713
like, I want to write that down.

1430
00:48:37,933 --> 00:48:38,473
Don't worry.

1431
00:48:38,473 --> 00:48:44,173
Just go to my website and I will have
all of that information to link you

1432
00:48:44,173 --> 00:48:47,903
to Cathy so that you can find her
and get signed up for her boot camp.

1433
00:48:47,913 --> 00:48:48,823
That would be amazing.

1434
00:48:49,443 --> 00:48:49,723
what

1435
00:48:49,831 --> 00:48:50,992
your car and you're like, I

1436
00:48:51,153 --> 00:48:54,813
a way to kind of like
knock some sense into you,

1437
00:48:54,862 --> 00:48:55,443
to link you

1438
00:48:55,633 --> 00:48:57,143
get you on the right track.

1439
00:48:57,183 --> 00:48:59,103
I love like the idea of a boot camp.

1440
00:48:59,613 --> 00:49:02,443
You know, usually I like I think of
boot camps, think of fitness and,

1441
00:49:02,603 --> 00:49:03,091
right track.

1442
00:49:03,091 --> 00:49:03,233
I love like

1443
00:49:03,273 --> 00:49:05,283
and, you know, it's like
super hard work, but

1444
00:49:05,319 --> 00:49:05,366
available.

1445
00:49:05,366 --> 00:49:05,508
Kathy Poss [48:36.728]

1446
00:49:05,508 --> 00:49:05,556
Great.

1447
00:49:05,603 --> 00:49:06,113
Yeah.

1448
00:49:06,313 --> 00:49:07,173
that's amazing.

1449
00:49:07,283 --> 00:49:12,513
So find me on my website,
prism-healing.com

1450
00:49:12,756 --> 00:49:13,420
looking

1451
00:49:13,603 --> 00:49:16,453
where you'll find my
healing services available.

1452
00:49:16,463 --> 00:49:16,514
Kathy Poss [48:36.728]

1453
00:49:16,514 --> 00:49:16,515
Great.

1454
00:49:16,515 --> 00:49:16,516
Yeah.

1455
00:49:16,516 --> 00:49:16,529
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [48:50.539]

1456
00:49:16,529 --> 00:49:20,573
for anyone who's looking to unblock
your limited beliefs on money

1457
00:49:20,933 --> 00:49:25,973
and you are wanting to manifest
wellness and prosperity, but you

1458
00:49:25,973 --> 00:49:29,243
keep hitting these patterns and
these blocks and you don't know why.

1459
00:49:29,623 --> 00:49:34,853
I think an integrated processing technique
is a fantastic opportunity to dive into

1460
00:49:35,293 --> 00:49:39,973
what point and what age did that start and
what do I need to know about that so that

1461
00:49:39,973 --> 00:49:43,073
I can heal and unblock from that trauma.

1462
00:49:43,310 --> 00:49:45,303
and what age

1463
00:49:45,343 --> 00:49:52,913
also am on Instagram at Prism underscore
healing and TikTok at Prism healing and

1464
00:49:53,633 --> 00:49:55,513
Facebook at Courtney Pearls Prism healing.

1465
00:49:55,773 --> 00:49:57,933
So you can find me on any of those places.

1466
00:49:58,587 --> 00:49:59,916
that trauma.

1467
00:50:00,413 --> 00:50:01,793
think that's about it.

1468
00:50:01,793 --> 00:50:02,663
Is there anything else?

1469
00:50:03,453 --> 00:50:10,203
I will be having another HeartSmart
Art workshop starting in January for

1470
00:50:10,203 --> 00:50:12,443
the little guys age five to eight.

1471
00:50:12,813 --> 00:50:13,853
Well, five to nine.

1472
00:50:14,123 --> 00:50:14,924
Kathy Poss [49:31.637]

1473
00:50:14,924 --> 00:50:14,925
you

1474
00:50:14,925 --> 00:50:14,933
Ride The Wave Media
Podcast Network [49:48.092]

1475
00:50:14,933 --> 00:50:15,403
I'm a little flexible on that.

1476
00:50:16,243 --> 00:50:19,793
But it's a once a month workshop for
little kids to just help them learn

1477
00:50:19,793 --> 00:50:22,983
how to understand their feelings
and express feelings through art.

1478
00:50:23,164 --> 00:50:23,828
it.

1479
00:50:23,973 --> 00:50:28,113
And so if you are listening now and you're
wanting to get your little one signed up,

1480
00:50:28,203 --> 00:50:34,083
please reach out to me at any of those
places that I just mentioned, my website.

1481
00:50:34,456 --> 00:50:37,113
the little guys age

1482
00:50:37,323 --> 00:50:40,283
then you can also go to my website
to check out my blog, which I have

1483
00:50:40,393 --> 00:50:41,933
all of my episodes of the podcast.

1484
00:50:42,427 --> 00:50:43,091
Poss

1485
00:50:43,123 --> 00:50:43,783
I will have

1486
00:50:44,063 --> 00:50:45,653
blog post for this one as well.

1487
00:50:45,833 --> 00:50:48,103
So I think that's about it.

1488
00:50:48,113 --> 00:50:49,913
Thank you so much, Cathy, for coming on.

1489
00:50:50,613 --> 00:50:51,353
It's been a blast.

1490
00:50:51,353 --> 00:50:52,198
Kathy Poss

1491
00:50:52,204 --> 00:50:52,227
that's about it.

1492
00:50:52,227 --> 00:50:52,290
Thank you so much, Cathy, for coming on.

1493
00:50:52,290 --> 00:50:52,322
It's been a blast.

1494
00:50:52,322 --> 00:50:52,345
Kathy Poss [50:22.968]

1495
00:50:52,353 --> 00:50:54,573
it's been such a wonderful conversation.

1496
00:50:54,763 --> 00:50:59,153
really, again, appreciate you
inviting me in because I do.

1497
00:50:59,183 --> 00:51:00,963
There's so much intersection and

1498
00:51:01,073 --> 00:51:01,918
and however,

1499
00:51:02,083 --> 00:51:09,793
however, you know, people want to heal and
really support their wellness is great.

1500
00:51:09,793 --> 00:51:10,728
Ride The Wave Media

1501
00:51:10,793 --> 00:51:11,573
I agree.

1502
00:51:12,483 --> 00:51:14,443
We're all in the community
of wellness together.

1503
00:51:14,533 --> 00:51:14,542
We're all in the community
of wellness together.

1504
00:51:14,542 --> 00:51:14,549
Witches and wizards, go make magic.

1505
00:51:14,549 --> 00:51:14,558
Kathy Poss [50:48.652]

1506
00:51:14,558 --> 00:51:16,193
Yeah, exactly.

1507
00:51:16,583 --> 00:51:18,683
Witches and wizards, go make magic.

1508
00:51:18,683 --> 00:51:18,693
Kathy Poss [50:48.652]

1509
00:51:18,693 --> 00:51:18,793
Yeah, exactly.

1510
00:51:18,793 --> 00:51:18,823
Yes!

1511
00:51:18,908 --> 00:51:19,398
Yes!